"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why are so many women in LTRs and marrying gay men? 2,000th post!

DonGorgon

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Why are so many women in LTRs with and marrying gay men?

I am sure you have all seen it, at the park at the mall etc. young middlaged and older women kids near by baby in stroller hand in hand with a flamboyantly gay man not even hiding his gayness..

I AM SEEING THIS MORE AND MORE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHY?

Ok, so women always say that they like gay men as "friends" cause they have so much in common and cause the gay man wont try to F them... Then they admit that they find many gay men very physically attractive... BUt now it seems that many women are entering into relationships and sleeping with these men. Some claim they didnt know ...

Please give your own explanation for this disturbing Fenomenon.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have never seen a woman married to a gay man.

In one of my social circle's I know a gay guy. Even though he is gay he has still had sex with women. Or gets to have 3 ways with 1 guy and 1 girl. How, do I know this? Well, I was drunk and asked him questions... :crazy:

But, when I think about why would women fvck a gay man. And it has to be on some level of attraction behond looks. Gay men don't chase or hit on girls. They treat them as just friends and compliment them on their looks. They do girl things with them and ect..... :confused:
 

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I don't understand, women marry gay men? Doesn't that guaruntee they will not get any sex?

I mean if a guy married a lesbian worst case she could just use lube and the guy is good to go, but what, is the guy going to have to get viagra just to consumate his marriage? Because if they can get it up normally with a woman, they are not gay - just like a straight guy will not become horny with another guy. (Never tried, but I imagine I would probably puke).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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n00bPimp said:
2,000 posts.
A good example of being a winner and a loser at the same time.

CONGRATS!
:D :D
 

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DonGorgon said:
Why are so many women in LTRs with and marrying gay men?

I am sure you have all seen it, at the park at the mall etc. young middlaged and older women kids near by baby in stroller hand in hand with a flamboyantly gay man not even hiding his gayness..

I AM SEEING THIS MORE AND MORE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHY?

Ok, so women always say that they like gay men as "friends" cause they have so much in common and cause the gay man wont try to F them... Then they admit that they find many gay men very physically attractive... BUt now it seems that many women are entering into relationships and sleeping with these men. Some claim they didnt know ...

Please give your own explanation for this disturbing Fenomenon.
Less cooking and cleaning on their part and they don't have to fake a headache to get out of sex?
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Less cooking and cleaning on their part and they don't have to fake a headache to get out of sex?

Maybe so with the cooking and cleaning but the sex part I am guessing the gay men would want sex form her just not vaginal right!?

I thing the end is near...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wtf? is this really happening?
 

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The relationship is un-natural and will not be in a harmonic balance. I will not last long.
 

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TanzaniaMan said:
What is with all the gay threads on here

I've been wondering that myself. First visit to the discussion forum in awhile and I see at least three active gay threads!?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonGorgon said:
so he is gay.. WTF???
No he used it as a false disqualifyer to get the groups defenses down and once he isolates his target and kisses her she will always say "I thought you were gay?" he would then go into a story about how he wasn't but his brother really is and would say "these are black nails not pink"
 

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Brandonc662 said:
No he used it as a false disqualifyer to get the groups defenses down and once he isolates his target and kisses her she will always say "I thought you were gay?" he would then go into a story about how he wasn't but his brother really is and would say "these are black nails not pink"
^^omg WTH
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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