We can still talk and learn from each other. Now's a good time for learning so that when you go back out there you'll have more game.
I'm not sure if you've picked up on this yet, but the stuff you see posted on this forum is just the same repetitive crap over and over and over again. There are some legitimately good posts and those who post on here but I could sum up this forum with the following.
- Don't double text
- Talk to multiple women
- If you are out of shape get in shape
- Always be working towards self improvement
- How to spot red flags/bat **** crazy women
etc.
To top this off, you have a fairly large number of posters on here that appear to live out some odd fantasy life online or just come on here to harass/troll, though it's a bit subtle with these off hand remarks.
For instance, we have posters on here who are well into their middle age or even older that I see now or seen in the past. Why the hell is a man in his 60s posting on a site like this when in the real world he should have other stuff going on?
This thread is pointless. You need to realize that there are people who can use OLD in their favor by doing some progress and getting dates. You can never generalize because of your inability to get something online, and need to realize that your area isnt the same and can't be matched to other parts of the world.
Also this forum is for people to get more knowledge and advice primarily about women and ofcourse other life areas. If you don't like, don't use it. Simple as that.
It definitely is relative to your area but OLD is trash for the most part, especially if you are older. I don't care what anyone says, an attractive 21 year old woman is not going to have her age criteria set to include men up to 40 for instance, nothing to do with game but just simple reality.
I have a friend who constantly brags about all these women he meets off of tinder. I've met a handful of them and they were all pretty average, one was trashy AF and the other was an insufferable leftist type. He'd also show me matches of these profiles that showed an attractive woman and it was clearly a fake profile/bot. This is what you are going to get online for the most part unless you have some sort of celebrity status, and this is coming from a white man who is 6'4" and in shape.