Tha Realnezz
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^basically...WaterTiger said:...and they think up all these lines, sitting home, watching "Desperate Housewives, eating ice cream and talking to their 6 cats.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
^basically...WaterTiger said:...and they think up all these lines, sitting home, watching "Desperate Housewives, eating ice cream and talking to their 6 cats.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Oh. My. God. No wonder Wisconsin had so many cattle last time I was there.Francisco d'Anconia said:They serve them deep fried on a stick up here.![]()
MVP said:I just went on this forum where someone happened to talk about weight. All these middle aged women talked about how they gained a lot of weight compared to their younger days, and they all have the attitude of (I'm paraphrasing)
-"Skinny girls are just what soceity is shoving down our throats, with that anorexic image"
-"I'm proud of how I look. People should not judge based on looks"
-"I'm actually healthy. A lot of those skinny girls just have good metabolism or they smoke. It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
-"I would never lose weight for a man. No one can tell me what to do"
At one time didn't "thick" only equate to hips and @ss? Now it seems to mean Michelin Man-like, at least to non-MTV women.Someone Much cooler said:ahhh yal will prolly make fun of me but i would date a think girl. Not like that ***** from norbit but one of these girls from a trick daddy wideo
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
For some, it is their body type.It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
That`s cuz US men are whipped and condone fat chicks, the kids grew up thinkin that obesidy is ok. For example Europe or Asia, if a chick was fat... she would never marry and will likely die alone or she would find a lozer like herself and marry him. Also in those countries regular clothing stores don`t have clothes that fit plus sized women, they have to go to specialized stores.MVP said:I just went on this forum where someone happened to talk about weight. All these middle aged women talked about how they gained a lot of weight compared to their younger days, and they all have the attitude of (I'm paraphrasing)
-"Skinny girls are just what soceity is shoving down our throats, with that anorexic image"
-"I'm proud of how I look. People should not judge based on looks"
-"I'm actually healthy. A lot of those skinny girls just have good metabolism or they smoke. It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
-"I would never lose weight for a man. No one can tell me what to do"
Gangster Of Love said:Yes, I agree with everything you guys have said about Fatties. They will always get play because there will always be guys who are willing to give them attention and/or sex, and will always find a guy who will date them.
With that being said, I love it how everyone here seems to make fun of fat people, yet, in the real world, in the U.S. world, 50% of people are either obese or overweight, yet by the sound of most post, it is only about less than 3% of the members here on the DJ boards. Hahaha. Glad that only the beautiful people post here.
According to those ridiculous stats, over 50% of the posters here are also overweight or obese. But don't let the facts get in your way of the truth, not here. Everyone is ripped here.
Same with the ridiculous high amount of people here who claims that so and so celebrity/model, etc. is "ugly", "I wouldn't do her", "she's nasty", etc., whenever somebody posts pictures of an attractive chick.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.