Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why are older women proud of being fat?

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WaterTiger said:
...and they think up all these lines, sitting home, watching "Desperate Housewives, eating ice cream and talking to their 6 cats.
^basically...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
They serve them deep fried on a stick up here.:rolleyes:
Oh. My. God. No wonder Wisconsin had so many cattle last time I was there.
 

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ahhh yal will prolly make fun of me but i would date a think girl. Not like that ***** from norbit but one of these girls from a trick daddy wideo
 

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MVP said:
I just went on this forum where someone happened to talk about weight. All these middle aged women talked about how they gained a lot of weight compared to their younger days, and they all have the attitude of (I'm paraphrasing)
-"Skinny girls are just what soceity is shoving down our throats, with that anorexic image"
-"I'm proud of how I look. People should not judge based on looks"
-"I'm actually healthy. A lot of those skinny girls just have good metabolism or they smoke. It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
-"I would never lose weight for a man. No one can tell me what to do"

Props to them for being "real"

Just don't come bvtching to us when you can't find a "good man"
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
ahhh yal will prolly make fun of me but i would date a think girl. Not like that ***** from norbit but one of these girls from a trick daddy wideo
At one time didn't "thick" only equate to hips and @ss? Now it seems to mean Michelin Man-like, at least to non-MTV women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
For some, it is their body type.

But, at least as far as Americans go, for most, it's all the twinkies and donuts, and chips and so forth they wash down with their diet pop.
 

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Is it just me, or does anyone find it impossible to have sex with a fat girl?

I mean how can you look and touch something like that and get an erection? I can only shag skinny girls, and I mean SKINNY!
 

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Yes, I agree with everything you guys have said about Fatties. They will always get play because there will always be guys who are willing to give them attention and/or sex, and will always find a guy who will date them.

With that being said, I love it how everyone here seems to make fun of fat people, yet, in the real world, in the U.S. world, 50% of people are either obese or overweight, yet by the sound of most post, it is only about less than 3% of the members here on the DJ boards. Hahaha. Glad that only the beautiful people post here.

According to those ridiculous stats, over 50% of the posters here are also overweight or obese. But don't let the facts get in your way of the truth, not here. Everyone is ripped here.

Same with the ridiculous high amount of people here who claims that so and so celebrity/model, etc. is "ugly", "I wouldn't do her", "she's nasty", etc., whenever somebody posts pictures of an attractive chick.
 
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MVP said:
I just went on this forum where someone happened to talk about weight. All these middle aged women talked about how they gained a lot of weight compared to their younger days, and they all have the attitude of (I'm paraphrasing)
-"Skinny girls are just what soceity is shoving down our throats, with that anorexic image"
-"I'm proud of how I look. People should not judge based on looks"
-"I'm actually healthy. A lot of those skinny girls just have good metabolism or they smoke. It's good to have meat on your bones because that is my body type"
-"I would never lose weight for a man. No one can tell me what to do"
That`s cuz US men are whipped and condone fat chicks, the kids grew up thinkin that obesidy is ok. For example Europe or Asia, if a chick was fat... she would never marry and will likely die alone or she would find a lozer like herself and marry him. Also in those countries regular clothing stores don`t have clothes that fit plus sized women, they have to go to specialized stores.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Yes, I agree with everything you guys have said about Fatties. They will always get play because there will always be guys who are willing to give them attention and/or sex, and will always find a guy who will date them.

With that being said, I love it how everyone here seems to make fun of fat people, yet, in the real world, in the U.S. world, 50% of people are either obese or overweight, yet by the sound of most post, it is only about less than 3% of the members here on the DJ boards. Hahaha. Glad that only the beautiful people post here.

According to those ridiculous stats, over 50% of the posters here are also overweight or obese. But don't let the facts get in your way of the truth, not here. Everyone is ripped here.

Same with the ridiculous high amount of people here who claims that so and so celebrity/model, etc. is "ugly", "I wouldn't do her", "she's nasty", etc., whenever somebody posts pictures of an attractive chick.

Your right! 50% of the U.S. is overweight. But I think this post is mainly concentrated on women because we notice women more. most guys are in denial they're fat and think they just big boned and think the fat is muscle. That's why you rarely see a guy admitting to being fat.

I take care of myself and would'nt be a hypocrite to call out fat chicks if I did'nt. But there are just too many fatsos in this country. I think if there were'nt so many fat lovers and this politically correct BS where you are'nt supposed to call fat people fat,airplaine seats are supposed to be bigger,BIG and LARGE stores are everywhere and people could buy sizes to XXXXXXXL it would'nt be so prevelent.

Then there are guys who chase those chubbies and make it worse. I know a guy who plays professional sports. His ex-fiance is a model. Guy breaks up with her and begins dating some thick assed girl. I mean this guy has everything a guy could wish for to be a DJ and has pulled some major tail. Now he's regressing to chubbies who are usually more difficult to find in his circles. What the hell is going on?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well most guys here are skinny just look at the old pic thread...remember?

Most guys here are real thin,my dude..

NH.
 
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