"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seems lately I'm being approached by women who have five or more years on me (I'm 52).
I'm looking back, not forward. Even online! I can just imagine how that would be in another five years...I'm getting concerned, hell more like worried. My friend's gf tried fixing me up with a 60 year old recently.

My ex was seven years my junior, and she hardly put out. Would I reasonably expect the opposite from the other direction? What am I doing wrong? Or are things really that fvcked up these days?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, things are that fvcked up. I look young for my age and women who looked like my 80 year old mother were hitting on me thinking they "deserved" me. Too much "you go girl" and not enough "look in the d@mn mirror" to see if he's going to be interested.
 
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glass half full said:
Seems lately I'm being approached by women who have five or more years on me (I'm 52).
I'm looking back, not forward. Even online! I can just imagine how that would be in another five years...I'm getting concerned, hell more like worried. My friend's gf tried fixing me up with a 60 year old recently.

My ex was seven years my junior, and she hardly put out. Would I reasonably expect the opposite from the other direction? What am I doing wrong? Or are things really that fvcked up these days?
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No reason to worry about it. It either means you are viewed as cougar bait or something in style, vibe, is projecting immense maturity.

You know you'd like a younger woman so when older are sniffing just be flattered and say no thank you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think since women are more independent now their true colors are showing more. They, just like us men, are attracted to health and youth. The same thing has been happening to me. Women about 40-45 are all over me, especially online. I've actually been noticing they're starting to seem attractive to me too now so it's all good. My options seem greater now than before because of all this.
 
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Some men go for younger women. Likewise some women go for younger men. It's all personal preference.
Female teachers going for their male students is proof of that.
The only problem as I see it is when you're 45 she could be pushing an extremely dried up 65. Think ahead if you're thinking about getting with an older woman.…
 
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@sodbuster is that the Filipino girl you met through your mate? I plated a Filipino girl in 2015 she seemed like a really decent chick. Unfortunately didn't have the visa.

Yeah I have the same high quality problem. I give her a good pounding that night and then in the morning
her little hand comes wandering over. Chinese girls love tea I m wondering if a little bromide in the tea might help
 
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Well I feel a little better now...been exposed to younger ones happy to see me...Went to a Gentleman's club a couple of weeks ago. These girls were sweeping me off my feet. My friend just split up with his ex and we thought it would be good to get him in there. But I was like a kid in a candy store, best time of my fvcking life!! He was having trouble, bytch was still on his mind, whereas I've had time to heal.

I've never had so much fun. I went to one of those places in my 20s, wasn't near as fun as lately. It's nice to have women nude, being friendly as hell and enjoying themselves at it too for my money, verses having a ***** being a ***** for my money at home and not getting anything but bs and grief for all my troubles. Nice to know women have that ability lol!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't kind older women chasing me. But I work in the kitchen and I'm trying to get a white collar job. Still trying, not getting.

If I could just succeed here, I'd actually have a girlfriend.
 
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