This isn't meant to be a racist post but I'm white and I've noticed that more and more attractive women of all nationalities are preferring Hispanic or black men over white men. White men seem to be a dying breed in this country. Any reason why this is? I can understand why they might prefer black men because of the myth that they are more well-endowed than men of other nationalities and women seem to prefer men to have tanned or darker skin but why Hispanic men? It seems that white men get many unwarranted negative labels attached to us when it comes to being good in bed etc.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why are more and more women preferring black or Hispanic men over white men?
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This is just an illusion. White women still largely go for white men. It's just that 1 white woman with one black man is one too many for some and seem like a zillion instead.
Compared to white men, there really are not of black men in the U.S. They live in Chicago, New York, Los Angelos, Detroit, and Atlanta and that's about it. You don't even see them in North Dakota.
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I still see the same amount of interracial relationships (girls dating black or Hispanic guys) as I did 5 years ago. Also here in California you see more girls dating black than Hispanics. Still, not very common.
Fist of all this is more of an illusion, because 10 instances of such an event seems like hundred to you. I live/lived in and around Boston and Worcester... and people usually stick to their race.
One thing i dont get from what you said... white girls with taco bells? lol you must be joking
One thing i dont get from what you said... white girls with taco bells? lol you must be joking
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I'm not white, but only two of the 20+ girls I've hooked up with haven't been white. I dont' think race really makes a difference.
I hear inter-racial relationships are viewed differently in the US than they are up here in Canada. My friend was dating a black dude in NYC, and she said they got looks all the time.
Inter-racial relationships are gonna become more and more common I think.
I hear inter-racial relationships are viewed differently in the US than they are up here in Canada. My friend was dating a black dude in NYC, and she said they got looks all the time.
Inter-racial relationships are gonna become more and more common I think.
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Women have become masculine; thus, they seek the more masculine image - which is the natural order of things! Whites have been programmed to bow down to women - which is unnatural and seen as a feminine quality! This is a modern-day development, perpetrated by mass media and institutions and is not the intrinsic nature of the male!
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Just another stereotype by some insecure black dude. Check out the UFC, or who's the world heavyweight champ now. Fvcking outdated thinking. Black men embrace the stereotypes that are favorable to them, but shun those that aren'tNighthawk said:
One could say that the white women who do date blacks and hispanics aren't exactly the cream of the crop. I'm not sure where the original poster lives, but attractive white women aren't dating minorities in droves where I live.
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I've been seeing more and more white/hispanic couples. I guess they got that whole "latin lover" thing going for them
actually, more and more american white guys are marrying foreign females. the fiancee visa (K visas) business is booming. it doesn't matter if she is a blond girl from eastern europe or a little korean. american guys are getting sick and tired of the attitudes at home. ever notice how so many soldiers get stationed overseas and bring back a new wife? same goes for expats in eastern europe or the far east. marriages with a foreign bride also tend to last longer. just go check the stats.
don't hate yourselves. that is the message. american society wants weak males.
don't hate yourselves. that is the message. american society wants weak males.
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Nighthawk nailed each and every reason chicks validate this behaviour.Nighthawk said:
Although you did leave out that they may just prefer dark meat because of the stereotypical "big penis" theory.
Piss off Daddy being one of the most common though.
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you must f'kn crazy..
having a white c*ck is your passport to any brown,black puzzy no matter how hot she it.
these girls must think white is 'status' and whites are more connected where the money is.. -- just my very unconstructive yet attempt at truth comments
having a white c*ck is your passport to any brown,black puzzy no matter how hot she it.
these girls must think white is 'status' and whites are more connected where the money is.. -- just my very unconstructive yet attempt at truth comments
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Only Hors are concerned with penis size!! Women are concerned with a man's masculinity and what he values!Dilberto said:
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Like I said, embrace the positive stereotypes, shun the negative. Tell them they don't do as well on a standardized test and they won't be so agreeable. Not that I put any stock in any of this nonsense, but it shows what hypocrites some people are.Dilberto said:
p.s. Your ethnicity doesn't determine your intelligence, penis size or anything else. Women date who they're attracted to, just like we are. Fvcking idiots.
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Women are attracted to people not a specific race. If you got it going on, than you can lay any girl if you hit the right buttons.
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