Why are men so desperate for sex?

[Love<3]

I'm not saying that women don't like sex. But it seems like men are always so pushy, desperate, and needy for sex...anyone else noticed this?

How often do you see women begging men for sex?

 

[backseatjuan]

Bull! God gave men hands that rich perfectly nice to pants. We'd be begging for sex if we could rich and touch our d1cks. So it's not sex! It's the need of a woman in our lives, we need them! If we can't pick and choose then we need the left overs!

 

[Bingo-Player]

Because Women have orchestrated the biggest hoax of all time and the deeper down the rabbit hole men go the worst it will become ......for both sexes

Where ever there is a perceived limited supply there always will be an overwhelming demand

Unfortunately there is somewhat a paradox to this

Women have spent the last century creating the illusion that sex is a reward and not a mutual decision between both sexes , because of this men think they need to act accordingly in order to deserve the reward (sex)

As a result society produces your weak, needy and desperate modern male that your modern female despise so much

“why are there no real men around here”

...........

Ooops did i just ruin someone’s afternoon

 

[jurry]

Why are women so desperate for commitment?

Women dont beg men for sex because its easy to get, men dont beg women for commitment (hopefully) because its easy to get.

Two entirely different biological urges at work here. Seems to be a paradox of the human species, but I suppose it serves the purpose of creating the strongest next generation and filtering out the weak (and ugly?).

 

[Zion]

Because very few men in this day and age know how to be attractive. The vast majority are your typical white knights / nice guys. They fall into a downward spiral of neediness and immediately over-invest whenever a female gives them a shred of attention. She gets repulsed, they fall deeper, and the process repeats itself with even higher chances of failure. They starve. Desperation is a natural consequence.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm not saying that women don't like sex. But it seems like men are always so pushy, desperate, and needy for sex...anyone else noticed this?

How often do you see women begging men for sex?

Because on average, men have lower standards. A female 4 in looks can get sex much easier than a male 6 in looks. Also, women like sex, but probably don't have as strong a drive for it as men.

I know you oppose sex before marriage Love<3, but most Western women use it as a bait and switch scam. They will act like they are obsessed with sex and F their boyfriends very regularly. After she gets marriage and/or kids or whatever she wants, she "loses interest" in sex. Then she acts "insulted" that he wants it from her regularly lol. She may never have been that attracted to him and desiring of sex. She just used it as "bait" to get what she wants.

 

[KingBeef]

Because very few men in this day and age know how to be attractive. The vast majority are your typical white knights / nice guys. They fall into a downward spiral of neediness and immediately over-invest whenever a female gives them a shred of attention. She gets repulsed, they fall deeper, rinse and repeat. They starve. Desperation is a natural consequence.

^^^ THIS.... It boggles the mind on how many men (thru their own ignorance or laziness) don't know how to "fine tune " themselves as the complete package...

 

[mangotot]

OP can you stop posting here, all you doing is antagonising people.

 

[LMFAO]

OP can you stop posting here, all you doing is antagonising people.

Yes "she"'s turning this place into Ask Men.

 

[miketan70]

These days you don't know who is more horny, men or women.

 

[Suspens]

But it seems like men are always so pushy, desperate, and needy for sex...

Because that's the only thing you are good for, so we want to make sure we are not wasting our time.

How often do you see women begging men for sex?

Instead, you beg and cry for attention. And if we play our cards right, you will beg for our c0cks too.

 

[BrainDamage92]

You know, I edited the original post.

To put it simply, I have a ballsack full of yummy fluid that I want to spray over the likes of you.

You, darling, on the other hand hardly think of sex as anything more than a mean to control a doormat and getting pregnant.

And Im still not sure youre a female.

;]

 

[Trump]

Because on average, men have lower standards. A female 4 in looks can get sex much easier than a male 6 in looks. Also, women like sex, but probably don't have as strong a drive for it as men.

I know you oppose sex before marriage Love<3, but most Western women use it as a bait and switch scam. They will act like they are obsessed with sex and F their boyfriends very regularly. After she gets marriage and/or kids or whatever she wants, she "loses interest" in sex. Then she acts "insulted" that he wants it from her regularly lol. She may never have been that attracted to him and desiring of sex. She just used it as "bait" to get what she wants.

This 100%.

After women get what they want from men (money, kids, status), they are out the door faster than you can say "Alimony".

Women don't care about men, women care about what you can for them. Once they have extracted all the resources they can from the man, they won't even return his call.

It's brutal, buts it's life.

 

[Tenacity]

I'm not saying that women don't like sex. But it seems like men are always so pushy, desperate, and needy for sex...anyone else noticed this?

How often do you see women begging men for sex?

A couple of reasons:

1.) Men have been conditioned and programmed to think that obtaining sex is an accomplishment. No man wants to be a loser, right? So obtaining sex is one of the ways a man validates himself.

2.) Men have been conditioned and programmed to seek female approval. A man could have just cured cancer, but if a chick doesn't acknowledge him for it (through a kiss, some a.ss, some head, etc) then the man still internally feels as though he didn't really "do" anything.

3.) The market has a whole is a bad market for Men. Women have all of the power in terms of social, political and cultural power which even though Men as a whole still trump women financially....Women are still promoted as something that is "worth" investing in.

4.) Finally, because most Men refuse to just buy Escorts. So because the guy is horny, he has to go out and try to "get it" from a chick that makes him jump through more hoops than a damn circus animal.

 

[logicallefty]

Let me ask you this: Why are women so desperate for attention?
Your kind loves it. You play weak men like pullets and get what you want, whether you do or do not give them sex. But strong men, like most informed guys here, couldnt give less than a single fvck about you or what you can give us. We focus on outselves and if women come along, so be it. If they don't? I can jerk one off and get back to my life and work. I really don't need a woman.

I want to tell you this is the last post of yours I will be responding to. And I advise every other guy here to not respond as well. She wants attention like every other women and is getting it. STOP REPLYING! It's pathetic and downright disrespectful of you to be hijacking the forum like this. Please, just leave and go to christian mingle so you can find a man who's willing to wait for marriage.

^^What he said :yes:


You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Ruler again.

 

[Love<3]

A couple of reasons:

1.) Men have been conditioned and programmed to think that obtaining sex is an accomplishment. No man wants to be a loser, right? So obtaining sex is one of the ways a man validates himself.

2.) Men have been conditioned and programmed to seek female approval. A man could have just cured cancer, but if a chick doesn't acknowledge him for it (through a kiss, some a.ss, some head, etc) then the man still internally feels as though he didn't really "do" anything.

3.) The market has a whole is a bad market for Men. Women have all of the power in terms of social, political and cultural power which even though Men as a whole still trump women financially....Women are still promoted as something that is "worth" investing in.

4.) Finally, because most Men refuse to just buy Escorts. So because the guy is horny, he has to go out and try to "get it" from a chick that makes him jump through more hoops than a damn circus animal.

You are right....it's considered culturally weird if a guy doesn't have sex and people label him as a loser

It's very sad because I see kids as young as 12 year olds having sex!!! We should stand up before our society gets worst

 

[zekko]

1.) Men have been conditioned and programmed to think that obtaining sex is an accomplishment. No man wants to be a loser, right? So obtaining sex is one of the ways a man validates himself.

It's part biological urge, part social status.

The community has made "validation" a dirty word, because a man should not base his value on the way a woman responds to him. But there is no question that a guy who can get laid gets more respect socially than a guy who cannot.

 

[Mike32ct]

While I do believe that men have stronger sex drives than women, there is no question that men can pursue sex for validation as well. Honestly, I did it mostly for ego or to "settle a score" or to simply convince myself that I wasn't some kind of loser. I never thought sex itself was that great pleasure-wise. I thought it was on par with a nice meal, ie good but not earth shattering.

But I agree about the social status. A guy with a gf or wife will get more respect. It is about sex. The unspoken assumption is that he's getting laid (even if she isn't putting out anymore).

 

[Love<3]

Why are women so desperate for commitment?

Women dont beg men for sex because its easy to get, men dont beg women for commitment (hopefully) because its easy to get.

Two entirely different biological urges at work here. Seems to be a paradox of the human species, but I suppose it serves the purpose of creating the strongest next generation and filtering out the weak (and ugly?).

We don't WANT commitment we need commitment/marriage for a healthy society

EDIT: why would I care about attention on the internet? My parents/family gave me enough attention thank you very much. But if you don't want to reply, than don't!

 

[LMFAO]

We don't WANT commitment we need commitment/marriage for a healthy society

You need commitment so someone can support you and for your genes to survive before you are at EGG ZERO.