"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why Are Men So Delusional When It Comes To Manipulative Women?

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Well, its hard to figure out people who are almost never honest or upfront.

In a woman's mind, lying is always ok if feelings are involved. Whether she is protecting your feelings or her own.. or even just scared, if there are emotions, its ok to lie. And you better not confront her about it. You will be met with more lies with a nice dessert of sh*t tests.
And keep in mind that I am very smart. I could explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to a 5th grader. I know all about the fields of psychology and psychiatry. Yet the who. Res at Hooters still baffle me. As does the behavior of many, if not all, of the other females on the planet.

I am beginning to educate myself about them. They do not respect me. This is very upsetting. I have always been nice to them.

I am beginning to realize that they are just not nice people. Yet nothing stops me from waking up wanting to have sex every day. Or perhaps I'm just exaggerating this and I just need to get to know a few of them.

Maybe I'm being completely paranoid and they are nice people. Who knows.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its a lot of the time forgetting that not everyone (especially women) operates rge way you do.

But if you start playing yourself you need to get out of the situation asap.

I went slightly AFC with this HB8 at the weekend. Messed it up because for a minute i forgot what i was dealing with.

Its just a habit to attribute "decent" qualities to women.

Old me would be hung up on it for weeks if not months. But i just said ah **** it went to NC and had a beer with my buddy and laughed at myself.
 
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And keep in mind that I am very smart. I could explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to a 5th grader. I know all about the fields of psychology and psychiatry. Yet the who. Res at Hooters still baffle me. As does the behavior of many, if not all, of the other females on the planet.

I am beginning to educate myself about them. They do not respect me. This is very upsetting. I have always been nice to them.

I am beginning to realize that they are just not nice people. Yet nothing stops me from waking up wanting to have sex every day. Or perhaps I'm just exaggerating this and I just need to get to know a few of them.

Maybe I'm being completely paranoid and they are nice people. Who knows.
Most women in the west are a*sholes.

And no matter how hot they are or how good their life is, they are always angry about something or someone. Since misery loves company, they will work hard to ensure you feel as sh*tty as they do. Women hate when men are happy. It was proven:

http://www.nbcnews.com/health/body-odd/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-f1C6437381
 

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Most women in the west are a*sholes.

And no matter how hot they are or how good their life is, they are always angry about something or someone. Since misery loves company, they will work hard to ensure you feel as sh*tty as they do. Women hate when men are happy. It was proven:

http://www.nbcnews.com/health/body-odd/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-f1C6437381
Guys do smile too much. I noticed this yesterday, Guys act all normal and then girls walk by and they get all smiley.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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