"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why Are Men So Delusional When It Comes To Manipulative Women?

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Well, its hard to figure out people who are almost never honest or upfront.

In a woman's mind, lying is always ok if feelings are involved. Whether she is protecting your feelings or her own.. or even just scared, if there are emotions, its ok to lie. And you better not confront her about it. You will be met with more lies with a nice dessert of sh*t tests.
And keep in mind that I am very smart. I could explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to a 5th grader. I know all about the fields of psychology and psychiatry. Yet the who. Res at Hooters still baffle me. As does the behavior of many, if not all, of the other females on the planet.

I am beginning to educate myself about them. They do not respect me. This is very upsetting. I have always been nice to them.

I am beginning to realize that they are just not nice people. Yet nothing stops me from waking up wanting to have sex every day. Or perhaps I'm just exaggerating this and I just need to get to know a few of them.

Maybe I'm being completely paranoid and they are nice people. Who knows.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its a lot of the time forgetting that not everyone (especially women) operates rge way you do.

But if you start playing yourself you need to get out of the situation asap.

I went slightly AFC with this HB8 at the weekend. Messed it up because for a minute i forgot what i was dealing with.

Its just a habit to attribute "decent" qualities to women.

Old me would be hung up on it for weeks if not months. But i just said ah **** it went to NC and had a beer with my buddy and laughed at myself.
 
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And keep in mind that I am very smart. I could explain Einstein's Theory of Relativity to a 5th grader. I know all about the fields of psychology and psychiatry. Yet the who. Res at Hooters still baffle me. As does the behavior of many, if not all, of the other females on the planet.

I am beginning to educate myself about them. They do not respect me. This is very upsetting. I have always been nice to them.

I am beginning to realize that they are just not nice people. Yet nothing stops me from waking up wanting to have sex every day. Or perhaps I'm just exaggerating this and I just need to get to know a few of them.

Maybe I'm being completely paranoid and they are nice people. Who knows.
Most women in the west are a*sholes.

And no matter how hot they are or how good their life is, they are always angry about something or someone. Since misery loves company, they will work hard to ensure you feel as sh*tty as they do. Women hate when men are happy. It was proven:

http://www.nbcnews.com/health/body-odd/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-f1C6437381
 

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Most women in the west are a*sholes.

And no matter how hot they are or how good their life is, they are always angry about something or someone. Since misery loves company, they will work hard to ensure you feel as sh*tty as they do. Women hate when men are happy. It was proven:

http://www.nbcnews.com/health/body-odd/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-f1C6437381
Guys do smile too much. I noticed this yesterday, Guys act all normal and then girls walk by and they get all smiley.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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