"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why are girl's alway's so busy and seem to care only about themselves at times?

crackers444

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I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives, and you start lose contact with them once you feel you have gotten to know them!
Any advice would be helpful!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls are never "busy"!! If such is spoken then it means that they are only too "busy" for you! Get the hint!
 

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they only want to give their time to a guy they really like!~
 

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crackers444 said:
I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives.


The girl is preoccupied with other things because you don't look like Brad Pitt and are not fun.
 

Don Juanabbe

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crackers444 said:
I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives, and you start lose contact with them once you feel you have gotten to know them!
Any advice would be helpful!

Damn! You shouldn't be having problems in Sydney Nove Scotia, hors are a dime a dozen out there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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