"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why are girl's alway's so busy and seem to care only about themselves at times?

crackers444

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I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives, and you start lose contact with them once you feel you have gotten to know them!
Any advice would be helpful!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls are never "busy"!! If such is spoken then it means that they are only too "busy" for you! Get the hint!
 

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they only want to give their time to a guy they really like!~
 

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crackers444 said:
I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives.


The girl is preoccupied with other things because you don't look like Brad Pitt and are not fun.
 

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crackers444 said:
I am wondering, why is it that girl's are alway's saying they are busy? It's rather annoying and it makes it harder to get to know the girl. The girl is preoccupied with other things in their lives, and you start lose contact with them once you feel you have gotten to know them!
Any advice would be helpful!

Damn! You shouldn't be having problems in Sydney Nove Scotia, hors are a dime a dozen out there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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