I keep reading this like in magazines and hearing this from people. That you see much better results from free weights and such over machines. Why is this? I'm sure fitness centers are packed with machines for a reason. So whats the real deal?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Public perception. People never learn free weight exercises properly. At that point machines probably are safer.bud_2005 said:I'm sure fitness centers are packed with machines for a reason. ?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Very good point.mrRuckus said:Public perception. People never learn free weight exercises properly. At that point machines probably are safer.
You know if a gym wasn't covered in machines people would think "this gym sucks."
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crazy:Contender said:They are both equally important, and useful. Since free-weights are well supported, I will present a good reason why Machines must still be used.
The Reason
It isolates the specific muscle - thereby giving that muscle a well stimulated workout. The free-weights tend to rob that particular muscle from well-needed work by doling out the work amongst our various muscle fibers throughout our body.