"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why are chicks flaking out on me?

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3

Disciple,

How about shooting a three pointer, missing, but getting the rebound? Or, practicing your game so well that every three pointer you make, you score.
In the game, anything can happen.

There are times when you could take a three pointer (cold approach) and miss the first attempt but maybe get a rebound (second opportunity) and score the second time.

I have seen things like this happen.

As far as getting so good that you never miss a 3-pointer, the best shooters in the NBA will only make 40-50% of their attempts, the best hitters in baseball hit in the .330 to .400 range, and the best passers in football don't complete 100% of their passes for a season (maybe for a game).

The point is that we are human and therefore imperfect so why should we expect to score 100% of the time.

No one does no matter how good they get.

There will be times when you will be perfect but never all of the time.

I've had nights where it seemed like I couldn't lose with the ladies and then went out the next weekend and couldn't get sh*t.

Did I change within a week?

No, the game is random so sometimes you hit peaks, sometimes valleys, and most of the time you land somewhere in between.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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