The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Why not, to have the opportunity to perhaps create a spark in their small onesided minds.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
your still a racist and for the record Im African amercican how the **** are you gonna say the rap music that black listen to makes them look bad. that comment alone tells me your a racist piece of ****. you don't hear me say stuff like punk music make white people look bad. plain and simple your a racist and you better be lucky you did not say any of that crap in front of me because it would not be a pretty site for you.brett012 said:I like the part where you completely misread my post and skipped the part where I never said there's anything wrong with rap. Let me dumb it down for you. Hell, just re-read the entire thing, maybe then you'll get it.
I'm talking about the music that's stereotyped that black people listen to, like "ridin dirty" and sh!t, that's what makes them look bad.. Hell I've probably had more black friends than you so I don't care what you say. I bet you're more racist than me.
I listen to some ChamilionaireLostAndConfused said:Actually Ridin' Dirty is a white boy song, no legitimate black folk has ever liked that song or Chamillionaire in general. Offtopic of course
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
no you are the racist one buddy and there is nothing you can say to try and change the subject. And just cuz you have a black does not mean you can't still be a racist.brett012 said:Yeah? Well I have a friend who's black and we're not afraid to talk about that stuff to each other. So really I have said it to a black person's face. So much for that comeback. You might want to re-read every single thing I ever said, because you have the amazing ability to translate everything I say to "rap music makes black people look bad." Maybe it is you who is racist and not me, because I never even brought that up, you did. Yes I Know you're black.
and your saying you never said these word then?brett012 said:If they're well mannered then there's nothing wrong with them. Rap is okay, but when a group of black people (or any one at all) is in a car blasting that 94.9 (like riding dirty, chain hang low) type bullsh!t they really should get shot.
look man I am fed up with white people always critizing black on everything they do. I should not have to come on to a online internet form where men are trying to learn how to game women and see racist crap like this. It's uncalled for and every race has bad seeds.Obsidian said:Rage, quit being so touchy. Having oversensitive feelings is entirely UNMANLY.
And you're probably right that having a thug attitude is helpful for people that grow up in the ghetto. But the sad thing is that even well-off black guys also feel a pressure to act like they're from a ghetto! Or at least it seems that way to me. It's stupid how we glorify a criminal culture.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
whatever racist pigbrett012 said:Yeah? Well I listen to some punk. Who cares? If I drove in a car blasting the stuff I think I'd look like a j@ckass too.
And if you'd really beat the sh!t out of me because of what I said, well, you may think it would make you look like a man, but it would just make you an oversensitive idiot who needs to work on his anger management.
ooh my feelings are hurt cuz a racist pig called me stupid...get the **** outta here with your racist bull. And no we are not on the same track cuz your a racist piece of ****.brett012 said:It's good that we're on the same track because I never said anything racist. Not that it matters because you're too stupid too understand anything I said in this thread, anyway.
look that guys the racist one not me and I am not a oversensitive little ***** pal.Obsidian said:I don't care if you're "fed up." You're still acting like an overly sensitive little b1tch. Learn to handle a debate like a gentleman instead of resorting to name-calling the moment someone disagrees with you.
hey idiot I did not say that you said rap suck I am calling you a racist because you said that black people listening to rap music makes them look bad and they should be shot. And you deserve to get jumped by a group of blacks for that racist comment you said.brett012 said:Let's pretend, for the sake of you thinking you're right, that I DID say rap sucks.
You said yourself you would beat the sh!t out of me because I said rap sucks. If that's not oversensitive I don't know what is. You should be put in prison if you act like that...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
your still a racist pig for making those comments period.brett012 said:And if you think I implied that ALL black people that listen to rap should LITERALLY get shot, you're just an idiot who needs to stop talking.
because they are ignorant closet racist like brett012Berlex said:why does the OP like to generalize?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.