The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Why not, to have the opportunity to perhaps create a spark in their small onesided minds.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
your still a racist and for the record Im African amercican how the **** are you gonna say the rap music that black listen to makes them look bad. that comment alone tells me your a racist piece of ****. you don't hear me say stuff like punk music make white people look bad. plain and simple your a racist and you better be lucky you did not say any of that crap in front of me because it would not be a pretty site for you.brett012 said:I like the part where you completely misread my post and skipped the part where I never said there's anything wrong with rap. Let me dumb it down for you. Hell, just re-read the entire thing, maybe then you'll get it.
I'm talking about the music that's stereotyped that black people listen to, like "ridin dirty" and sh!t, that's what makes them look bad.. Hell I've probably had more black friends than you so I don't care what you say. I bet you're more racist than me.
I listen to some ChamilionaireLostAndConfused said:Actually Ridin' Dirty is a white boy song, no legitimate black folk has ever liked that song or Chamillionaire in general. Offtopic of course
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no you are the racist one buddy and there is nothing you can say to try and change the subject. And just cuz you have a black does not mean you can't still be a racist.brett012 said:Yeah? Well I have a friend who's black and we're not afraid to talk about that stuff to each other. So really I have said it to a black person's face. So much for that comeback. You might want to re-read every single thing I ever said, because you have the amazing ability to translate everything I say to "rap music makes black people look bad." Maybe it is you who is racist and not me, because I never even brought that up, you did. Yes I Know you're black.
and your saying you never said these word then?brett012 said:If they're well mannered then there's nothing wrong with them. Rap is okay, but when a group of black people (or any one at all) is in a car blasting that 94.9 (like riding dirty, chain hang low) type bullsh!t they really should get shot.
look man I am fed up with white people always critizing black on everything they do. I should not have to come on to a online internet form where men are trying to learn how to game women and see racist crap like this. It's uncalled for and every race has bad seeds.Obsidian said:Rage, quit being so touchy. Having oversensitive feelings is entirely UNMANLY.
And you're probably right that having a thug attitude is helpful for people that grow up in the ghetto. But the sad thing is that even well-off black guys also feel a pressure to act like they're from a ghetto! Or at least it seems that way to me. It's stupid how we glorify a criminal culture.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
whatever racist pigbrett012 said:Yeah? Well I listen to some punk. Who cares? If I drove in a car blasting the stuff I think I'd look like a j@ckass too.
And if you'd really beat the sh!t out of me because of what I said, well, you may think it would make you look like a man, but it would just make you an oversensitive idiot who needs to work on his anger management.
ooh my feelings are hurt cuz a racist pig called me stupid...get the **** outta here with your racist bull. And no we are not on the same track cuz your a racist piece of ****.brett012 said:It's good that we're on the same track because I never said anything racist. Not that it matters because you're too stupid too understand anything I said in this thread, anyway.
look that guys the racist one not me and I am not a oversensitive little ***** pal.Obsidian said:I don't care if you're "fed up." You're still acting like an overly sensitive little b1tch. Learn to handle a debate like a gentleman instead of resorting to name-calling the moment someone disagrees with you.
hey idiot I did not say that you said rap suck I am calling you a racist because you said that black people listening to rap music makes them look bad and they should be shot. And you deserve to get jumped by a group of blacks for that racist comment you said.brett012 said:Let's pretend, for the sake of you thinking you're right, that I DID say rap sucks.
You said yourself you would beat the sh!t out of me because I said rap sucks. If that's not oversensitive I don't know what is. You should be put in prison if you act like that...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
your still a racist pig for making those comments period.brett012 said:And if you think I implied that ALL black people that listen to rap should LITERALLY get shot, you're just an idiot who needs to stop talking.
because they are ignorant closet racist like brett012Berlex said:why does the OP like to generalize?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.