Why are all girls untrustworthy hos?

[kraytkiller]

Met this chick, became fckbuddies, last night found out she's had a boyfriend she's unhappy with the entire time.

I'm not too surprised, all the signs were there, such as mysteriously needing to be places until certain times, and a pic of her and him on her facebook (but not romantic enough to be concrete)

I guess it shouldn't matter to me. We both agreed it'd stay as a fckbuddy thing, but she of course started getting feelings and I guess I allowed myself to consider the thought of us having something one day.

The part that hurts, I guess, is that this revelation, in my eyes, has crushed almost all hope of us ever getting together. For obvious reasons I'll never fully trust her, which is a big factor for me but a struggle I already dealth with.

It feels like the emotional connection is gone, which is the fun part. But I could still keep her around for ***** if I wanted. But the sad part is, despite priding myself on being as non judgemental and accepting as possible, I find myself almost despising her for what she's doing, especially since my last ex did something very similar that I hate her for with all my soul. So ironically, I'm involved with someone almost exactly like my ex. I realized that last night, theyre similar personality wise too.

I guess this post is mostly venting, but I'm really not sure what to do. Fck her and treat her however I want until she leaves? Or tell her I can't be a part of something this disgusting with a clear conscience? Or pretend everything is fine and try to understand why she does what she does? I'm pretty torn.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I too would farm Krayts for flawless pearls...

And why would women be trustworthy or loyal? Nothings ever their fault. All women have no accountability at all...

 

[kraytkiller]

I too would farm Krayts for flawless pearls...

And why would women be trustworthy or loyal? Nothings ever their fault. All women have no accountability at all...

Haha, hell yeah man. That game was a big part of my life growing up, haha. I kind of feel like that sentence applies to the pursuit of women as some sort of analogy, fighting fearsome dragons to find the best rare gems? Dunno. Lol.

Anyways, I've been thinking about it (and probably will think plenty more) I don't plan to see her for a couple days and when I do I plan to either break it off or continue as is. But personally, I've made plenty of mistakes, and I realize some good people occasionally do bad things because of a lack of control in their life.... She's a good person, a good friend and she's helped me out a lot in my life by giving me rides everywhere due to the fact my car is totaled at the moment.

I think I may just keep things on a sexual level and make sure to keep the relationship stuff at a distance. A far distance. I saw a post by ForeverAFC about how you shouldn't treat every woman like theyre marriage or relationship material, and instead just have fun. I think that applies here.

 

[Epimanes]

That's a poor generalization in my opinion. First off.. She's a fvck buddy.. Why even consider someone as ltr if they can just randomly give out sex like that? No strings attatched? Women need 2 things for sex 1. And emotional connection (regardless of what you think she wouldn't even be your fvck buddy if she in her mind didn't have some kind of emotional connection) and 2. Prospect of enjoyment.

To most woman relationships are never "just sex" women are not wired that way.

If you want a high value woman find one that's not a fvck buddy, find someone fun, who respects herself. Anyone who is just a fvck buddy is just a cvm bucket really, trying to grasp attention where they can when they can. You can be sure as shyt she is also someone else's fvck buddy too if she is that casual about it. Fvck budies are low quality.

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Epi

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Not all women, but most

 

[TheException]

False, in the 21st century USA.

No. Epimanes is right. Women are not like men where they have a constant need for variation and sex all the time. They simply need the highest value male they can attain. They may entertain more than one male at a time, but shes comparing them against one another and will eventually choose one.

As far as the OP is concerned.....he simply is removing all blame from himself and placing it on the women for being "untrustworthy". The real problem was getting clingy and starting to attach emotionally to a fvck buddy....a cardinal sin, as well as placing her on a pedestal thinking she can do no wrong.

Instead of saying "all girls are untrustworthy" start saying "Im too quick to trust women." You simply placed this girl under the ole "shes different and special" category, when in reality, no woman is in this category. Its not a big deal. Practically every man has done this at one point.

 

[Jair213]

you saw all the red flags yet you are complaining that all woman are not to trust? smh

wth is wrong with you dudes?

 

[Robert28]

No. Epimanes is right. Women are not like men where they have a constant need for variation and sex all the time. They simply need the highest value male they can attain. They may entertain more than one male at a time, but shes comparing them against one another and will eventually choose one.

As far as the OP is concerned.....he simply is removing all blame from himself and placing it on the women for being "untrustworthy". The real problem was getting clingy and starting to attach emotionally to a fvck buddy....a cardinal sin, as well as placing her on a pedestal thinking she can do no wrong.

Instead of saying "all girls are untrustworthy" start saying "Im too quick to trust women." You simply placed this girl under the ole "shes different and special" category, when in reality, no woman is in this category. Its not a big deal. Practically every man has done this at one point.

Then why are so many women dating, marrying, getting knocked up by deadbeat losers? It doesn't have sh!t to do with IF they can do better, but WHY won't they do better. You don't see me running around with unemployed, drug doing, hoebag women do you? Of course the fvck not because I have standards and I'd rather be single and beat my meat then to settle with some girl who is beneath my dating standards.

I have a friend that could just about date ANY guy she wanted, yet she CHOOSES to date some yeti looking fat@$$ idiot with the personality of a rock that none of her friends like. Not only is she dating him but she's dated him the longest over any guy she's dated the past few years. Sometimes I think she keeps him around just to piss us off.

 

[skinnyguy]

You sound like a butthurt mangina. Your eyes wander so why should she be loyal to you?

 

[kraytkiller]

You sound like a butthurt mangina. Your eyes wander so why should she be loyal to you?

True, I struggle alot with double standards. I guess I'm just not used to how women will tell you how much they care about you and at the same time be faking it just as convincingly for some other dude. But that's how they are, I should probably just grow up.

 

[TheException]

Then why are so many women dating, marrying, getting knocked up by deadbeat losers? It doesn't have sh!t to do with IF they can do better, but WHY won't they do better. You don't see me running around with unemployed, drug doing, hoebag women do you? Of course the fvck not because I have standards and I'd rather be single and beat my meat then to settle with some girl who is beneath my dating standards.

I have a friend that could just about date ANY guy she wanted, yet she CHOOSES to date some yeti looking fat@$$ idiot with the personality of a rock that none of her friends like. Not only is she dating him but she's dated him the longest over any guy she's dated the past few years. Sometimes I think she keeps him around just to piss us off.

Well pal if you deny that women seek the highest value male they can attain then you deny some of the most rooted parts of the "red pill". What you see in some guy probably isnt what the women sees. Those "deadbeat" losers do things that turn women on. Those women are probably super fvcked up anyways. I disagree with you and say they probably cant do better and are low quality women.

As far as your friend dating the "rock personality guy".....dude sounds like a boss. Ever consider he is a rock around you guys because he doesnt give a sh1t about you guys? Hes doing his own thing and isnt going to change just because you all whine to his girlfriend. He is obviously doing things to keep her around....maybe you are just not privy to them.

 

[Robert28]

Well pal if you deny that women seek the highest value male they can attain then you deny some of the most rooted parts of the "red pill". What you see in some guy probably isnt what the women sees. Those "deadbeat" losers do things that turn women on. Those women are probably super fvcked up anyways. I disagree with you and say they probably cant do better and are low quality women.

As far as your friend dating the "rock personality guy".....dude sounds like a boss. Ever consider he is a rock around you guys because he doesnt give a sh1t about you guys? Hes doing his own thing and isnt going to change just because you all whine to his girlfriend. He is obviously doing things to keep her around....maybe you are just not privy to them.

Well from what I see, there's a sh!t load of low quality women out there. That dude might be a "boss", I dunno. All I do know is his parents are supposedly rich and she is probably in love with that.

 

[zekko]

No. Epimanes is right. Women are not like men where they have a constant need for variation and sex all the time. They simply need the highest value male they can attain. They may entertain more than one male at a time, but shes comparing them against one another and will eventually choose one.

In most cases, probably. But there are definitely girls who crave the attention of many different men in order to feel fulfilled. Perhaps it's the attention that is driving them rather than the sex, but the result is the same (or can be).

 

[:-)]

truth is neither black nor white but usually in the middle:

1) there are women who have and need lots of sex.
2) there are women who don't have and don't need lots of sex.
3) there are women who don't have but do need lots of sex.
4) there are women who do have but don't need a lot of sex.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSd6-EvBgN4

 

[_sideways_]

I too would farm Krayts for flawless pearls...

And why would women be trustworthy or loyal? Nothings ever their fault. All women have no accountability at all...

Nothing is their fault. ...just the cause

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Bump

 

[Julian]

IDK how OP would wanna stay with this trick. Could you imagine being her boyfriend? You are at work, you love your girl..sure she pisses you off and you guys havent been as close the last week but you planned a date this weekend together and tonight its your movie night...its 4pm and you are almost done...and your gf is out giving some dude rides around town and sukking his sausage. she gets home right before you do and jumps in the shower and brushes her teeth...she just got home from the "gym" she tells you. you kiss her and hug her and share some inside jokes and squeeze her ass thinking shes all yours...ahaha boiyo your wrong as fuk! fuk this gay earth.


OP should bang this hoe out, video tape it with her knowledge...promise her a relationship...then aware her BF and air that hoe out.

 

[bigneil]

Women are not untrustworthy. What is untrustworthy is our expectations (thanks, Mom).

Men can indeed trust women... to be unfaithful.

But this can be used to our advantage. They are like moths to a flame and can be led astray by pretty lights and colors.

 

[penkitten]

Not all.