"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why are all girls like this!!!

vonbock

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They dress up and want to show cleavage. So if some guy looks at their cleavage, then the girl goes back to their friends and says "I can't believe that guy, he kept staring at my cleavage. What a pervert" I mean if girls don't want guys looking, then dress up as a Nun or as Amish girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They get off on it, both getting stared at and playing the high and mighty "what a perv" card.
 

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"I can't believe that guy, he kept staring at my cleavage. What a pervert"

that's ******** for "yes.. I still have it! guys are still checking me out"

by calling you a perv, they are saying that a guy actually was gawking at you without coming out and being stuck up about it
 

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I think this is called "having your cake and eating it too".

They get the attention, and they also get to feel like they are above seeking attention... AT THE SAME TIME. It's the best of both worlds for these chicks.
 

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my girlfriend doesn't do that!?! Guess that means that my girlfried isn't a girl so she isn't a girl?!? Guess I better go check later on tonight to make sure that she is a girl... I'll tell you guys how that goes later on. :crazy:

Maybe it just has to do with the types of girls that you go after. Maybe you should be more picky.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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