Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's entirely unorganic. I believe the transexual movement might actually be the one to start the pushback. It's far too insidious of a movement in all of its dynamics and existence to just be tolerated. Even women are pushing back against it, and they are usually the frontrunners for pushing any lgbt directive. Granted, it's also women's fault for bringing it in.I was listening to talk radio today and they had mentioned going into Target and seeing a display right at the front, where there had never been a display before, and it was all clothes promoting transgenderism. Sayings and slogans on the shirts and such. These guys were talking about how this transgender thing came out of nowhere but has gone everywhere fast.
It's not just us, the manosphere, noticing this. However, the sheep will keep being sheep regardless....until they are slaughtered. Because that's what sheep do.
The pendulum should swing back....it will but when is the question....and at what cost.
Very strange times we are in.
The cost will be severe. An overcorrection.I was listening to talk radio today and they had mentioned going into Target and seeing a display right at the front, where there had never been a display before, and it was all clothes promoting transgenderism. Sayings and slogans on the shirts and such. These guys were talking about how this transgender thing came out of nowhere but has gone everywhere fast.
It's not just us, the manosphere, noticing this. However, the sheep will keep being sheep regardless....until they are slaughtered. Because that's what sheep do.
The pendulum should swing back....it will but when is the question....and at what cost.
Very strange times we are in.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This, it's ESGGotz to boost ESG scores somehow.