"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why are 165lbs > 185lbs women calling themselves "mid size" when they are fat as phuck?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would look at the impact of "body positivity" and related concepts that have been pushed in recent years.

Add in with the tendency for most women to rate themselves and their friends as 10s.

And also how, the average weight / fat percentage has been steadily on the rise for decades.

Somewhere between those issues is where I would make my guess.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women Will describe themselves as all sorts of nonsense ..

BBW /Big Beautiful woman = fat AF

curvy lady = fat n chunky

and then the cropped close up photos to try cat fish on the apps
 

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Women Will describe themselves as all sorts of nonsense ..

BBW /Big Beautiful woman = fat AF

curvy lady = fat n chunky

and then the cropped close up photos to try cat fish on the apps
Ahh, I almost forgot about that photo rule;

Full body -> no surprises
Chest up -> curvy
Shoulders up -> large
Face only -> xl or larger
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Their thought process is, presumably, similar to that of Dwayne Johnson, Joe Rogan, Chris's Hemsworth, Kumal Nanjani, Hugh Jackman... Every prominent Hollywood actor,,who continues to pretend that their gruesomely jacked physiques are "natural", and not primairly the result of heavy steroid abuse:

Facing the truth can be momentairly uncomfortable, thus MOST PEOPLE create end runs around doing so
 

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Whats your mission exactly ?

The woman in that picture , you probably wouldn't even register in her mind. She will have TONS of orbiters .

She is far from ugly, and if she loses a couple of pounds she will be unstoppable while you will still be complaining.

I seriously dont understand the goal behind threads like these...oh well..
 
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Bodyweight standards and dress sizes have shifted so that female consumers don't feel fat when shopping. An average BMI woman in the 1990s would be considered "skinny" today.
 

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They say "there`s more of me to love" = fat. Might as well just say "easier to see" :lol:
 

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I seriously dont understand the goal behind threads like these...
Life's gotten dull, ever since Cinemax After Dark went the way of the brontosaurus. Gotta trek into rural Congo,
To encounter one of the latter now

Goes without saying, posting on social media is infinitely less strenuous than hiking through the jungle, ergo most folks prefer chose to engage in that first activity
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We always hear about shrinkflation happening with food but no one is talking about how the opposite is happening with women.
 
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Whats your mission exactly ?

The woman in that picture , you probably wouldn't even register in her mind. She will have TONS of orbiters .

She is far from ugly, and if she loses a couple of pounds she will be unstoppable while you will still be complaining.

I seriously dont understand the goal behind threads like these...oh well..
True, they have lot of orbiters online on ****ty sleazy dating apps who throw some meat into dark corners. But none of them are quality high value men, or well-to-do slim/fit/healthy bmi average-looking white men who respect themselves and have college educations. Most of these pigs get pumped and dumped by some dusty fetishist.

You would never see a black or hispanic male model or athlete, a doctor from Turkey, a wealthy land owner from South Africa, a university teacher from Switzerland, a professor from south Korea or Japan get with some disgusting, fat, pig like plus+ sized creature. More like some low income black or a street sweeper from Venezuela , or a fat taxi driver or chubby fastfood-line-cook from Mexico who would get with one.
 
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