Broke up with ex in December, took time to recover but made most progress after going no contact. Fast forward to now and I've got a new HB7 that's really into me and we're starting to get really close. Already hooked up with her and I see this turning into a relationship down the road.....so why am I not happy? I don't understand it, this should be a good thing for me right?
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Why am I not happy?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
When you look for a woman to make you feel happy, happiness will always elude you. We need to regard women as an adjunct to an already fulfilled life.
Cremasta said:
ha ha ha ha ha ha .......so fvckin true........
find happiness from within my friend.................women are nothing but an addition to your life.............
oh yeah they can also be used as gap fillers....................ha ha
take care of yourself...first.........then the other stuff doesnt seem to matter as much anymore.....
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This Atom Smasher, ripped of my post haha jk
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
I know, Im generally happy. I just meant regarding the relationship. Think my problem is i keep comparing her to my ex. Granted that I knew my ex for much longer so thats probably why I dont feel that connection yet. I also know my ex is having a hard time and down the line somewhere I feel she might wanna try to get back together....I'll probably be with the new girl.
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This. You need to learn to be happy on your own.Atom Smasher said: