Broke up with ex in December, took time to recover but made most progress after going no contact. Fast forward to now and I've got a new HB7 that's really into me and we're starting to get really close. Already hooked up with her and I see this turning into a relationship down the road.....so why am I not happy? I don't understand it, this should be a good thing for me right?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why am I not happy?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
When you look for a woman to make you feel happy, happiness will always elude you. We need to regard women as an adjunct to an already fulfilled life.
Cremasta said:
ha ha ha ha ha ha .......so fvckin true........
find happiness from within my friend.................women are nothing but an addition to your life.............
oh yeah they can also be used as gap fillers....................ha ha
take care of yourself...first.........then the other stuff doesnt seem to matter as much anymore.....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This Atom Smasher, ripped of my post haha jk
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
I know, Im generally happy. I just meant regarding the relationship. Think my problem is i keep comparing her to my ex. Granted that I knew my ex for much longer so thats probably why I dont feel that connection yet. I also know my ex is having a hard time and down the line somewhere I feel she might wanna try to get back together....I'll probably be with the new girl.
VikingKing
Banned
This. You need to learn to be happy on your own.Atom Smasher said: