Broke up with ex in December, took time to recover but made most progress after going no contact. Fast forward to now and I've got a new HB7 that's really into me and we're starting to get really close. Already hooked up with her and I see this turning into a relationship down the road.....so why am I not happy? I don't understand it, this should be a good thing for me right?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why am I not happy?
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
When you look for a woman to make you feel happy, happiness will always elude you. We need to regard women as an adjunct to an already fulfilled life.
Cremasta said:
ha ha ha ha ha ha .......so fvckin true........
find happiness from within my friend.................women are nothing but an addition to your life.............
oh yeah they can also be used as gap fillers....................ha ha
take care of yourself...first.........then the other stuff doesnt seem to matter as much anymore.....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This Atom Smasher, ripped of my post haha jk
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
As he said man, no woman (or any person) can make you happy, you can't look for happiness in a relationship. A relationship with a girl is there so you can share the happiness you already own.
To be happy, you have to accomplish yourself: do what you love, have a passion and a goal in life, work hard and never give up. You can be everything you want, just do you best and good things will come by themselves.
Finally, dont' forget the commercial "don't worry, be happy"
I know, Im generally happy. I just meant regarding the relationship. Think my problem is i keep comparing her to my ex. Granted that I knew my ex for much longer so thats probably why I dont feel that connection yet. I also know my ex is having a hard time and down the line somewhere I feel she might wanna try to get back together....I'll probably be with the new girl.
VikingKing
Banned
This. You need to learn to be happy on your own.Atom Smasher said: