"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why am i every girls "best friend"?

goldenrocker91

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Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DarthJuan

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goldenrocker91 said:
Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
Be more sexual.
 

Skilla_Staz

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You're going to get a bunch of kids telling you that you need to read the DJ Bible. I'll be the first.

It seems to me that you come in here, and immediately start asking questions. Do some reading first my friend. It'll save you a lot of trouble in the long run.
 

Dearl

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^^^The reason why because new people (me also) want direct answers. Rejection plays a role in just reading the bible and making moves on are on, when I could post a question and sombody gives me the correct thing to do. You understand? I know now but i doubt this problem will fix soon.
 
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