Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why am i every girls "best friend"?

goldenrocker91

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Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DarthJuan

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goldenrocker91 said:
Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
Be more sexual.
 

Skilla_Staz

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You're going to get a bunch of kids telling you that you need to read the DJ Bible. I'll be the first.

It seems to me that you come in here, and immediately start asking questions. Do some reading first my friend. It'll save you a lot of trouble in the long run.
 

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^^^The reason why because new people (me also) want direct answers. Rejection plays a role in just reading the bible and making moves on are on, when I could post a question and sombody gives me the correct thing to do. You understand? I know now but i doubt this problem will fix soon.
 
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