"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why am i every girls "best friend"?

goldenrocker91

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Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DarthJuan

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goldenrocker91 said:
Okay so im a sophmore and im a pretty popular kid. I hang out in alot of different groups and i have alot of friends. Most people consider my looks to be above average and i am a confident guy. I am freinds with tons of girls, but thats it, just friends. Ive only made out with one girl in my life and thats pretty sad if you ask me. Basically, my question is this. How do i keep out of the friend zone and get girls to like me as more than a friend?
Be more sexual.
 

Skilla_Staz

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You're going to get a bunch of kids telling you that you need to read the DJ Bible. I'll be the first.

It seems to me that you come in here, and immediately start asking questions. Do some reading first my friend. It'll save you a lot of trouble in the long run.
 

Dearl

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^^^The reason why because new people (me also) want direct answers. Rejection plays a role in just reading the bible and making moves on are on, when I could post a question and sombody gives me the correct thing to do. You understand? I know now but i doubt this problem will fix soon.
 
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