"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whose seen the departed? i got a question

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Great movie. I've been watching over and over for the past few months to figure out something but im still having trouble

Was madolyn madden pregnant with william costigans child or was she pregnant with sullivans?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Label me bored.

Costigan. Implied it in their last meeting, she wanted to talk to him about something.

He backs away, and then turns to go.

MADOLYN
I...we...

(he turns)

I’ve, it's, been so confused... I
just want to say...

He turns and looks at her. She doesn’t speak: can’t.

BILLY
Whatever you have to say, really
think about it, and if you still
want to tell me, tell me in two
weeks, all right?

She moves her head slightly, watches him go.​
You can say Costigan knew what she wanted to say, but rather not know it. You know the cliché ignorance is bliss?

In the original Chinese film (Infernal Affairs), Costigan's Chinese counterpart Chan had a kid too that he was not aware of. The screenwriter compressed three female characters from Infernal Affairs into the Departed. The therapist, wife and the mystery woman with Lau's kid were all seperate characters.
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
Great movie. I've been watching over and over for the past few months to figure out something but im still having trouble

Was madolyn madden pregnant with william costigans child or was she pregnant with sullivans?
Think about it as though you were analyzing the film. Thematically, the whole point of Costigan meeting and sleeping with the girl was to knock her up. Since basically everyone dies in the story, there needed to be someone to pass on the "I'm a good person" genes. Of course, it did involve the girl cheating on Sullivan but he was lying about his entire life to her, was very distant to her, and thus thematically the cheating was justified. She was a basically good woman, doing public service, it would have been a disservice for Sullivan to have fathered the child, so there you go.
 
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