"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whose seen the departed? i got a question

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Great movie. I've been watching over and over for the past few months to figure out something but im still having trouble

Was madolyn madden pregnant with william costigans child or was she pregnant with sullivans?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Label me bored.

Costigan. Implied it in their last meeting, she wanted to talk to him about something.

He backs away, and then turns to go.

MADOLYN
I...we...

(he turns)

I’ve, it's, been so confused... I
just want to say...

He turns and looks at her. She doesn’t speak: can’t.

BILLY
Whatever you have to say, really
think about it, and if you still
want to tell me, tell me in two
weeks, all right?

She moves her head slightly, watches him go.​
You can say Costigan knew what she wanted to say, but rather not know it. You know the cliché ignorance is bliss?

In the original Chinese film (Infernal Affairs), Costigan's Chinese counterpart Chan had a kid too that he was not aware of. The screenwriter compressed three female characters from Infernal Affairs into the Departed. The therapist, wife and the mystery woman with Lau's kid were all seperate characters.
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
Great movie. I've been watching over and over for the past few months to figure out something but im still having trouble

Was madolyn madden pregnant with william costigans child or was she pregnant with sullivans?
Think about it as though you were analyzing the film. Thematically, the whole point of Costigan meeting and sleeping with the girl was to knock her up. Since basically everyone dies in the story, there needed to be someone to pass on the "I'm a good person" genes. Of course, it did involve the girl cheating on Sullivan but he was lying about his entire life to her, was very distant to her, and thus thematically the cheating was justified. She was a basically good woman, doing public service, it would have been a disservice for Sullivan to have fathered the child, so there you go.
 
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