"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whose going out to the field tonight?

Solomon

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It's time for action guys!!

My best bud is going tonight, he could be sulking at home, being depressed over his recent break up, but he has the DJ mindset of abdundance!

Who is going out tonight?

I just got done watching Swingers, boy that Vince Vaughn talk about direct game at it's finest

Peace
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm going to a black/pink party at my nearest club.
 

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I was all set up to go until I noticed a big ass pimple right on my nose! Which sucks cause I know there's a huge gathering up in the city.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Vanilla said:
I was all set up to go until I noticed a big ass pimple right on my nose! Which sucks cause I know there's a huge gathering up in the city.
You suck dude.

and yea solo , tonight was a great night. No pull but couple of # closes and solid interactions.
Tomorrow i have a date and a movie to watch with this babe i met today.

I haven't been on SS and i have a lot of stuff to share with you guys. Whole different type of game. Ill write a big ass thread when i have time .

Peace , im out .
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Solomon said:
It's time for action guys!!

My best bud is going tonight, he could be sulking at home, being depressed over his recent break up, but he has the DJ mindset of abdundance!

Who is going out tonight?

I just got done watching Swingers, boy that Vince Vaughn talk about direct game at it's finest

Peace
If I wasn't working til 2am, I'd probably go to Savannah and flail my arms in the air pretending I know how to dance. Only then would a set open, cuz clubs are just too damn loud.

Then I'd probably wake up at 3PM and have to go to work by 4 tomorrow, so I slept through my opportunity at day game, where flailing my arms like a T-Mobile balloon isn't necessary.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I actually did go out, haha. Got 2 numbers too, so it was a nice night. Might write up a field report tomorrow, too tired atm.
 

Poonani Maker

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I just saw Swingers for the first time recently. Although, in the movie, they've got those old bigass phones (No cellphones), the stuff pretty much applies to today. I can place the year of the movie based upon when I used to play that hockey game, and my buds did the Exact same thing and game before going out! I really can't believe the similarity, but that was 12th grade. So depressing. I was so lost. Such an out of it loser. I had nothing but fat chicks wanting to hook up with me then, because maybe I rubbed her feet at a house party and so she became "attached." She wanted to parade me in front of her gfs, take me to the mall and sh!t. I bought her flowers on the first date - The ultimate AFC nice guy. I smoked a few cigarettes for her, never got hooked though thank God. I made out and fvcked her (big tits but fat think warhog short but cute face blond blue) at a party after playing quarters losing thus having to drink about 10 beers so she could grab me, take me to the back bedroom and basically rape me. She'd had a crush on me since 8th grade, and I never knew it.

I think cellphones, the internet (and thus porn and access - women can now see our pedestaling of them in full force), has really changed the dynamic of club bar gaming pick up sarging whatever. Cellphones are glued to the b!tches now, like a safety "I'm cool" I'm always on the phone mechanism. Women are so dependent, yet claim to be so strong.
 
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