"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whose going out to the field tonight?

Solomon

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It's time for action guys!!

My best bud is going tonight, he could be sulking at home, being depressed over his recent break up, but he has the DJ mindset of abdundance!

Who is going out tonight?

I just got done watching Swingers, boy that Vince Vaughn talk about direct game at it's finest

Peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm going to a black/pink party at my nearest club.
 

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I was all set up to go until I noticed a big ass pimple right on my nose! Which sucks cause I know there's a huge gathering up in the city.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Vanilla said:
I was all set up to go until I noticed a big ass pimple right on my nose! Which sucks cause I know there's a huge gathering up in the city.
You suck dude.

and yea solo , tonight was a great night. No pull but couple of # closes and solid interactions.
Tomorrow i have a date and a movie to watch with this babe i met today.

I haven't been on SS and i have a lot of stuff to share with you guys. Whole different type of game. Ill write a big ass thread when i have time .

Peace , im out .
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Solomon said:
It's time for action guys!!

My best bud is going tonight, he could be sulking at home, being depressed over his recent break up, but he has the DJ mindset of abdundance!

Who is going out tonight?

I just got done watching Swingers, boy that Vince Vaughn talk about direct game at it's finest

Peace
If I wasn't working til 2am, I'd probably go to Savannah and flail my arms in the air pretending I know how to dance. Only then would a set open, cuz clubs are just too damn loud.

Then I'd probably wake up at 3PM and have to go to work by 4 tomorrow, so I slept through my opportunity at day game, where flailing my arms like a T-Mobile balloon isn't necessary.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I actually did go out, haha. Got 2 numbers too, so it was a nice night. Might write up a field report tomorrow, too tired atm.
 

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I just saw Swingers for the first time recently. Although, in the movie, they've got those old bigass phones (No cellphones), the stuff pretty much applies to today. I can place the year of the movie based upon when I used to play that hockey game, and my buds did the Exact same thing and game before going out! I really can't believe the similarity, but that was 12th grade. So depressing. I was so lost. Such an out of it loser. I had nothing but fat chicks wanting to hook up with me then, because maybe I rubbed her feet at a house party and so she became "attached." She wanted to parade me in front of her gfs, take me to the mall and sh!t. I bought her flowers on the first date - The ultimate AFC nice guy. I smoked a few cigarettes for her, never got hooked though thank God. I made out and fvcked her (big tits but fat think warhog short but cute face blond blue) at a party after playing quarters losing thus having to drink about 10 beers so she could grab me, take me to the back bedroom and basically rape me. She'd had a crush on me since 8th grade, and I never knew it.

I think cellphones, the internet (and thus porn and access - women can now see our pedestaling of them in full force), has really changed the dynamic of club bar gaming pick up sarging whatever. Cellphones are glued to the b!tches now, like a safety "I'm cool" I'm always on the phone mechanism. Women are so dependent, yet claim to be so strong.
 
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