Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Roissy wasn't selling anything so he had no reason not to tell the truth. He also based his game theory on the empyric evidence. His archives are better than anything since.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wayne is fine if you're looking to wife up a single mother. He's very limited compared to Roissy or Mystery. Read my book 20 times...f#ck that.
Where? Can you link this?
You should post it lol
Well, the step by step process of approaching a girl to closing it with her IS the point of the books themselves. Bang and Day Bang give you a process for banging a girl for day and night game, respectively. And Game gives a process for both, with some updates and a less enthusiastic sentiment about the whole process of getting girls. So I recommend you read those books.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Looks like he has deleted most of the older pieces. Anyone know a place to download the audiobook versions?
Was he an incel? the guy had success with his method and people here speak positively of his book. Are you just a hater?
The "Jersey Shore" guys had solid game back in the day. Those reality shows are heavily edited though.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
For me I it wasn't even about their game because they never showed too much of the actual pickups.. rather just them going home with the girls or how they handled situations with multiple girls, or obsessive chicks, etc...
Gym Tan Laundry is related to a lot of the parts of Game discussed on the forum.
Some of them were authentic Italian-Americans. Many were not from New Jersey. The Situation was from Staten Island, which does have a lot of Italian-Americans and is similar to New Jersey.
I've never noticed that particular claim. But maybe they also make it because guys in their early 20s don't really need gurus because they are naturally around the most attractive women just by living a normal day to day life, because those women are their peers. They really do need game though, because just speaking for myself, I did some of the stupidest and cringiest things with women in my 20s... I could have used more of a clue, instead of fumbling around trying to figure things out for myself. But it might have driven me to overthinking too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was a follower of Roosh for some time, and I am almost sure he didn't bang any girl for free for years before he become a religious person. It seems he slept with some girls when he was in his twenties but once he become older all his books didn't help him. He was pretending to be pickup artist and sleeping with women just to monetize his blog and make some money as he didn't have any real job or business besides his publications.
obviously. You have to tell your clients what they want to hear. They are not going to say ”Take my course because women in early 20s hate men in their 30s who have missed the boat. These men have to go with women in their 40s.”
If anyone makes income off giving dating advice, there is an angle.
I have seen some of those influencers on TikTok and other apps and they use the same advice or crap you find from old PUA canon. Good PUAs who knew what they talking about were few. The old fast seduction forum was gold of good playas back in the day.
Dude I hear you brother. I've read four of his books and they all were devastating and at the same time some odlf the most important books I've ever read.
Since ya'll are heathens...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.