"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dilberto

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......closed-minded, shallow, opinionated, and arrogant ignoramus on this forum, that's a complete WASTE of bandwidth here? Include MYSELF if you want to. Also, include examples, quotes, etc, of WHY you feel this person(s) deserve the distinction of, "The Hopeless Poster-Child Of Anti-Don Juan behavior".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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billy_bronx

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is that going to help you find a girl to bang tonight?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ace of Flames

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If someone on these forums got to you enough to cause you to make this thread, then you have a lot to learn. Not just about DJing, but about life.

Anyway, if you get banned or something, I hope this was worth it!
 

kickureface

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millions....
only elstud comes to mind. not to pick on you though! :)
 

Bonez

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Dilberto said:
......closed-minded, shallow, opinionated, and arrogant ignoramus on this forum, that's a complete WASTE of bandwidth here? Include MYSELF if you want to. Also, include examples, quotes, etc, of WHY you feel this person(s) deserve the distinction of, "The Hopeless Poster-Child Of Anti-Don Juan behavior".
I got this quote from somewhere on this site. I think it is a great example of The Hopeless Poster-Child Of Anti-Don Juan behavior.

There is worse though...

"Fred Da Head Who gives a flying f**k?"
 
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