Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I learn a lot from everyone on here DJ or AFC, but Pook has radically alterd the way I approached positive masculinity.
I am definitely a Pook student.
I am definitely a Pook student.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So what are you doing on sosuave, are you trying to attract females or your just curious about how attraction works?Originally posted by Wyldfire
I have 4 children, was married ten years and am likely old enough to be your mother.
I'm here to offer input and advice from a fairly unique perspective. I'm a chick who thinks more like a dude, and can usually explain chick type things in terminology guys can relate to and understand. I'm also brutally honest and a very logical person...so I offer something that no one else here does. I know guys have it rough with women, so I try to help because I'm good at it. That's why Im here.Originally posted by whyshy
So what are you doing on sosuave, are you trying to attract females or your just curious about how attraction works?
Pook has always been one to put forth posts that make you think about things you might not otherwise notice. That's what makes him unique and special. I just wish he'd tone down the masculinist stuff he's taken to lately. I think he's become so embroiled in that type of thinking that it limits him in a not so good way. On top of that, it has had a really negative impact on some of the members who admire him so much. Instead of just noticing feminist influence when it exists...these guys are actively seeking it to the point where they created problems that don't even exist.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
I learn a lot from everyone on here DJ or AFC, but Pook has radically alterd the way I approached positive masculinity.
I am definitely a Pook student.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm an antifeminist...and I used to enjoy discussing the issue of feminism with Pook. However, as of late he's tweaking on it way too much to the point that it's all he seems to think about. Not healthy...Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Wyldfire
Pook has always been one to put forth posts that make you think about things you might not otherwise notice. That's what makes him unique and special. I just wish he'd tone down the masculinist stuff he's taken to lately. I think he's become so embroiled in that type of thinking that it limits him in a not so good way. On top of that, it has had a really negative impact on some of the members who admire him so much. Instead of just noticing feminist influence when it exists...these guys are actively seeking it to the point where they created problems that don't even exist.
i like Pook's hard line stuff
Pook political posts show the bigger picture on some of the feminist and socities secret agendas
he paints a broad picture but it's in crazy detail
you look at Pook's political posts under a microscope and its like that Jerry Seinfield episode where Jerry wonders how his cleaner cleans inside the gaps inside the refridgerator
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.