"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi

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I learn a lot from everyone on here DJ or AFC, but Pook has radically alterd the way I approached positive masculinity.

I am definitely a Pook student.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I have 4 children, was married ten years and am likely old enough to be your mother.
So what are you doing on sosuave, are you trying to attract females or your just curious about how attraction works?
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
So what are you doing on sosuave, are you trying to attract females or your just curious about how attraction works?
I'm here to offer input and advice from a fairly unique perspective. I'm a chick who thinks more like a dude, and can usually explain chick type things in terminology guys can relate to and understand. I'm also brutally honest and a very logical person...so I offer something that no one else here does. I know guys have it rough with women, so I try to help because I'm good at it. That's why Im here.
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
I learn a lot from everyone on here DJ or AFC, but Pook has radically alterd the way I approached positive masculinity.

I am definitely a Pook student.
Pook has always been one to put forth posts that make you think about things you might not otherwise notice. That's what makes him unique and special. I just wish he'd tone down the masculinist stuff he's taken to lately. I think he's become so embroiled in that type of thinking that it limits him in a not so good way. On top of that, it has had a really negative impact on some of the members who admire him so much. Instead of just noticing feminist influence when it exists...these guys are actively seeking it to the point where they created problems that don't even exist.

And Rollo...you also offer meaty subjects when you want to...even if I don't always agree with you...you do offer food for thought.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mmmmmm, Rolo.

*drools*
 

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:crackup:

Me so hungry!
 

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Hey now,..

Actually I'm flattered to be included in any list including the likes of Pook, A-Unit, Francisco, Gunwitch, or Desdenova.

I think it all comes down to approach really. Pook is the Socrates of the DJ forum. A-Unit is about nuts & bolts, Gunwitch is method, Francisco is like Voltaire and at the risk of glossing myself. I'd be Plato with a healthy dose of Aristotle soaked in behavioral psychology.

Wyld, since we're kissy kissy on this thread, I'll say I do appreciate a mature woman's perspective on these boards (not a cut just an observation) especially when we disagree. You are an aggrivating buffer, but an appreciated one none the less.
 

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I am actually glad I usually never make the “most popular” lists. I am disagreeable and eccentric enough whereby I maintain a normal “Sosuave.net life.” My current status keeps me just enough below the radar where I am not swamped with private messages and where guys make petty arguments with me just for the sake of arguing, or any other of the nuisances which plague someone like Pook.
 

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Hmm. There are a lot of good posters on this site whose posts I enjoy reading.

Player_Supreme had probably the best material on this site. The guy drank, ate and breathed game. His knowledge was by far the most practical on this site, and he backed everything up with proof that it worked. I wouldn't call him a DJ tho, because much like myself, he hates that term and would never want to be associated with it. But I will say that he is/was the top seducer on this site. It's a shame he got banned, but it usually happens to people whose views don't fit within the norm.

Other posters I enjoy reading from include:

Jariel - We share the same mentality on attracting women. That is, make yourself a catch, and then sit back and have them come to you. It's a lazy way of doing things, but it works. When it comes to this, all the H&F DJs will think like that.

JC - he's the guy kids who come to this site confused should model after. He works hard in the field, and has had lots of payoff in return. I've followed his posts for a long while, and one of my fav posts was a field report her posted like the day after his LTR ended. The guy has a winning attitude, and bounces back fast after a failure. Only thing he needs to do is not take the PUA thing too seriously, because a lot of those (mASF) guys, despite their success in the field are downright geeky, and that sh!t is beneath him.

Soma - I have no clue why this guy got banned, but his posts were some of the best on this site, and the guy had lots of game, but at the same time he didn't take it too seriously.

Lost In Translation - this guy has the right attitude and I agree with him on almost everything he posts. Really strong inner game, doesn't put up with bullsh!t / disrespect, I see eye-to-eye a lot with him. Great poster.

There are a few other names I can't recall right now, but I always keep an eye on their posts.



As for Pook...


he has some great posts, but I think too many people are breastfeeding off him and are infatuated with him. Don't get me wrong, I love Pook's posts, but in all the years he's been here, I have yet to see a photo of him, or a photo of him with some of the girls he hooked, or anything of that sort. The guy's writting is very well done, but he has 0 credibility in my book. Until he can actually back up his words with some proof like P_S has done, I'll see him as just another intelligent poster. As far as I'm concerned, P_S, JC, and a few others have much more game then Pook does, but don't get the credit.

EDIT OH AND I ALMOST FORGOT - CLOONEY. gave awesome advice back when he posted a lot, and some of his boxing picks have made me good money! ha ha ha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pook has always been one to put forth posts that make you think about things you might not otherwise notice. That's what makes him unique and special. I just wish he'd tone down the masculinist stuff he's taken to lately. I think he's become so embroiled in that type of thinking that it limits him in a not so good way. On top of that, it has had a really negative impact on some of the members who admire him so much. Instead of just noticing feminist influence when it exists...these guys are actively seeking it to the point where they created problems that don't even exist.

i like Pook's hard line stuff

Pook political posts show the bigger picture on some of the feminist and socities secret agendas

he paints a broad picture but it's in crazy detail

you look at Pook's political posts under a microscope and its like that Jerry Seinfield episode where Jerry wonders how his cleaner cleans inside the gaps inside the refridgerator


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 
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007~JC :woo: (after me, that is:D)

Keep up the good work;)


Laterz...
 

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Rollo...I'd hardly call it "kissy kissy"...I just don't have a problem saying that I can respect people I don't always agree with.

I only aggravate you because I force you to think. :D
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Wyldfire
Pook has always been one to put forth posts that make you think about things you might not otherwise notice. That's what makes him unique and special. I just wish he'd tone down the masculinist stuff he's taken to lately. I think he's become so embroiled in that type of thinking that it limits him in a not so good way. On top of that, it has had a really negative impact on some of the members who admire him so much. Instead of just noticing feminist influence when it exists...these guys are actively seeking it to the point where they created problems that don't even exist.

i like Pook's hard line stuff

Pook political posts show the bigger picture on some of the feminist and socities secret agendas

he paints a broad picture but it's in crazy detail

you look at Pook's political posts under a microscope and its like that Jerry Seinfield episode where Jerry wonders how his cleaner cleans inside the gaps inside the refridgerator


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
I'm an antifeminist...and I used to enjoy discussing the issue of feminism with Pook. However, as of late he's tweaking on it way too much to the point that it's all he seems to think about. Not healthy...
 

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you lot are chatting crap debeard is the best. theres no one better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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