"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who's right? Me or "them"?

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DJ24SEVEN

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Yes, my name is DJ24SEVEN. I consider myself a DJ because I focus on myself and anything else good that happens to me (ex. girls) is just an added bonus.

I'm not interested in forming a relationship right now (I'm 20) and I never really had relationships (mostly flings). I don't call a one month fling a relationship.

Anyway, I focus on what interests me while my buddies are always *trying* to pick up girls. I've been girlfriend-less for a while (again, I've had flings) and it doesn't bother me one bit.

What does bother me is when my buddies say I need a girlfriend (cause I spend so much time doing stuff solo) or I see other young people my age in relationships. I know I'm being a bit AFC but is it "wrong" not to have a girlfriend?

Can any of you go longer than a year WITHOUT a girlfriend? Are any of you "afraid" to be solo? Is that why you're in a relationship?

So am I right for not caring about getting a GF right now?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GuitarOnFire7

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Focus on improving yourself and the girls will come to you. I've seen this personally happen to me, and I've been getting girls with higher interest than in the past.
 
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Some of the reasons why I don't fit in with girls my age because a) I don't party and b) I don't attend school.

I work a full-time job.
 
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diplomatic_lie

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One of my friends has a "girlfriend" whom he spends hundreds of dollars of presents on, has never kissed, and spends 5 hours on the phone with each week.

He tells me I need a girlfriend.

I've gotten laid more in the past two weeks than he has in his entire relationship.


Ask yourself, do YOU need a girlfriend? It doesn't matter what your friends think, what matters is what YOU think.

As long as you *can* pick up women, there's nothing to be worried about. Next time your buddies say you need a girl, go and pick up a hot woman for the night and make sure they see it.
 
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DJ24SEVEN

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
As long as you *can* pick up women, there's nothing to be worried about. Next time your buddies say you need a girl, go and pick up a hot woman for the night and make sure they see it.
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Ultimate kick in the ass. And I see no reason to blow money on a girl right now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sart

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EASY

You're right they are wrong.
 
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Wiesman44

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If you don't feel the need to find that significant other why force it ? There's plenty of women our age that just dont want a relationship yet. They're in college. Flings provide them with a sexual release w/o the bs involved w/ a relationship
 
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i can't say i NEED a girlfriend but the thought of somebody careing about you, and wanting to be around and with you is kinda nice.

but no i don't need a g/f and I have gone a year without one, actually 2 years without a "girlfriend" girls i've talked to / "other stuff" with

enough to keep a smile on my face :)
 
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