Who's right? Me or "them"?

[DJ24SEVEN]

Yes, my name is DJ24SEVEN. I consider myself a DJ because I focus on myself and anything else good that happens to me (ex. girls) is just an added bonus.

I'm not interested in forming a relationship right now (I'm 20) and I never really had relationships (mostly flings). I don't call a one month fling a relationship.

Anyway, I focus on what interests me while my buddies are always *trying* to pick up girls. I've been girlfriend-less for a while (again, I've had flings) and it doesn't bother me one bit.

What does bother me is when my buddies say I need a girlfriend (cause I spend so much time doing stuff solo) or I see other young people my age in relationships. I know I'm being a bit AFC but is it "wrong" not to have a girlfriend?

Can any of you go longer than a year WITHOUT a girlfriend? Are any of you "afraid" to be solo? Is that why you're in a relationship?

So am I right for not caring about getting a GF right now?

 

[GuitarOnFire7]

Focus on improving yourself and the girls will come to you. I've seen this personally happen to me, and I've been getting girls with higher interest than in the past.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Some of the reasons why I don't fit in with girls my age because a) I don't party and b) I don't attend school.

I work a full-time job.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

One of my friends has a "girlfriend" whom he spends hundreds of dollars of presents on, has never kissed, and spends 5 hours on the phone with each week.

He tells me I need a girlfriend.

I've gotten laid more in the past two weeks than he has in his entire relationship.


Ask yourself, do YOU need a girlfriend? It doesn't matter what your friends think, what matters is what YOU think.

As long as you *can* pick up women, there's nothing to be worried about. Next time your buddies say you need a girl, go and pick up a hot woman for the night and make sure they see it.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
As long as you *can* pick up women, there's nothing to be worried about. Next time your buddies say you need a girl, go and pick up a hot woman for the night and make sure they see it.

Ultimate kick in the ass. And I see no reason to blow money on a girl right now.

 

[Sart]

EASY

You're right they are wrong.

 

[Wiesman44]

If you don't feel the need to find that significant other why force it ? There's plenty of women our age that just dont want a relationship yet. They're in college. Flings provide them with a sexual release w/o the bs involved w/ a relationship

 

[christz]

i can't say i NEED a girlfriend but the thought of somebody careing about you, and wanting to be around and with you is kinda nice.

but no i don't need a g/f and I have gone a year without one, actually 2 years without a "girlfriend" girls i've talked to / "other stuff" with

enough to keep a smile on my face