"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who's "Old School"?

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Allen, as you may know I'm putting together a top ten and I have a question...

I would like to recognize the top "old school" literary DJs who laid the foundation for the concepts we now apply.

But qualifies a DJ as "old school".

I think its someone who was registered before you switched to this software. Was that around June of 2000?

Anyway, thats my idea. So Allen, what do you think qualifies a DJ as "old school"?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Survivor, I am starting not to like your whole top 5 thread if this is what it's all about. Who gives a crap about all this "old school" nonsense? The board is what it is now and has the contributors that is has now and that's that. Why do we need to create unnecessary distinctions and catagorize people?

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Categorizing people is not my intention, tricknick. I thought I made that clear in my last post.

As for the old-school thing, I was merely going to link threads to retired posters. I'm not building a shrine.

And from what I remember, your list consisted of posters that influenced *you* the most, as did mine. That's all I'm doing. No categorizing. No labeling. No hero-worship. No divisiveness. Only small thanks. Thats it!

However... I do believe in the better good of the forum. If Allen and the mods think the list might be misperceived, then I won't post it.
 

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Originally posted by Survivor:
Categorizing people is not my intention, tricknick. I thought I made that clear in my last post.

As for the old-school thing, I was merely going to link threads to retired posters. I'm not building a shrine.

And from what I remember, your list consisted of posters that influenced *you* the most, as did mine. That's all I'm doing. No categorizing. No labeling. No hero-worship. No divisiveness. Only small thanks. Thats it!

However... I do believe in the better good of the forum. If Allen and the mods think the list might be misperceived, then I won't post it.
Fair enough. You are right, the posters that influenced me the most as a newbie were Take no Dirt, Don the Legend and Don Phenom because those were the active guys with the best adivice at the time I joined. I am sure you look at the guys who were active and posted good stuff when you came here the same way. I just don't want the focus to be on aggrandisement because I don't think that's healthy for the newer guys. I'd say with that in mind, go ahead and proceed.

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I've never really used that term, so I've never really classified anyone as "Old School." But if you were going to use it, your distinction seems logical, though I'm not sure it serves a useful purpose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not about the person who posts the post, it's about the message of the post. That's why we got our DJ Bible, right? And you don't get your post to the Bible if you're part of the "old school", you get it there if that post is good. I don't get your idea about catecorizing people being part of the old school or the new school.

Heck, I don't even know what's the differnce between old and new school! I thought the same things that were teached those days are being teached now, too...?

And even if there is some sort of "new school" that teaches different things than the "old school", how can you know that everyone who've been here long enough are actually part of the "old school"? And if there isn't any difference between the schools (as it seems to me) then I don't see why you are doing this.

I just don't get the purpose of this.
 
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