"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whos from NYC / Long Island?

Crissco

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Whats up fellow New Yorker's...Okay so this is two for one post. I'm looking for friends plus a wingman to go out with on weekends. Most of my friends either have GF's now, are older than me (im 35) or dont have the same mindset as me. As they say "You are the 5 people you spend your time with" - I have over 10 years experience with "game" and "pick up", im looking for like minded people who would be down to go out on the weekends. But I am also looking for people who work in highly successful areas in their career, and I would like to learn from YOU to better my career and my life and make more money for myself (which has been a big issue for me lately since losing my job)...Hence why I said two for one deal. Wingman plus people who are sucessful in their careers that I can learn, look up to, and be motivated to do better in all areas of my life. If this sounds like you comment or shoot me a PM.

Crissco
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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p_1337

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Whats up fellow New Yorker's...Okay so this is two for one post. I'm looking for friends plus a wingman to go out with on weekends. Most of my friends either have GF's now, are older than me (im 35) or dont have the same mindset as me. As they say "You are the 5 people you spend your time with" - I have over 10 years experience with "game" and "pick up", im looking for like minded people who would be down to go out on the weekends. But I am also looking for people who work in highly successful areas in their career, and I would like to learn from YOU to better my career and my life and make more money for myself (which has been a big issue for me lately since losing my job)...Hence why I said two for one deal. Wingman plus people who are sucessful in their careers that I can learn, look up to, and be motivated to do better in all areas of my life. If this sounds like you comment or shoot me a PM.

Crissco
I'll be there later this month into January. Feel free to send me a private message.
 

Modern Man Advice

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I'm from NYC but moved to the PNW years ago. I will be there for Xmas and New Year's to visit and spend time with my family so I doubt I'll have time to go out. But if I do, I'll hit you up. If not, next time for sure.

PS: Proud of you for recognizing the importance of networking and the influence people have in your life and having that hunger and eagerness to leverage that to grow and move forward and up.
 

nappy101

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Let me know if you guys are still available in the NYC/Long Island, NY area. I usually try to go out Wednesday - Saturday. I'm happy to be a wing.

I'll PM whoever responds. It's hilarious, and a bit sad how difficult it is to find a wing.
 

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Please excuse the next several posts. I'm trying to get my first 5 posts on this forum so I can start PMing anyone who said they're available inn NYC/ Long Island to game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nappy101

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Whats up fellow New Yorker's...Okay so this is two for one post. I'm looking for friends plus a wingman to go out with on weekends. Most of my friends either have GF's now, are older than me (im 35) or dont have the same mindset as me. As they say "You are the 5 people you spend your time with" - I have over 10 years experience with "game" and "pick up", im looking for like minded people who would be down to go out on the weekends. But I am also looking for people who work in highly successful areas in their career, and I would like to learn from YOU to better my career and my life and make more money for myself (which has been a big issue for me lately since losing my job)...Hence why I said two for one deal. Wingman plus people who are sucessful in their careers that I can learn, look up to, and be motivated to do better in all areas of my life. If this sounds like you comment or shoot me a PM.

Crissco
The PM function doesn't seem to be working, even after my first 5 posts on this forum. Let me know if you're still available to game in the NYC and Long Island, NY area.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

nappy101

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I'll be there later this month into January. Feel free to send me a private message.
The PM function doesn't seem to be working, even after my first 5 posts on this forum. Let me know if you're still available to game in the NYC and Long Island, NY area.
 

p_1337

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The PM function doesn't seem to be working, even after my first 5 posts on this forum. Let me know if you're still available to game in the NYC and Long Island, NY area.
Yes indeed -- I'll be around the next few weeks.
 

Manure Spherian

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I am on LI, but not available for wingmanning. But if you want to chat through PM or in this thread here about women or social life here, as a fellow New Yorker, that’s fine.
 
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I’m new to the game. Just got out of a long relationship. I’m 100% down to game let me know!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I’m gonna be active here everyday learning so just reply and I’ll see it for sure.
 

nappy101

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I’m gonna be active here everyday learning so just reply and I’ll see it for sure.
I just PM'd you. Looking forward to hearing back from you.

Cheers, and happy holidays.
 
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