"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Just a question for the moderators (or anyone else who might be able to help) - I was trying to add an attachment (an image) to one of my posts just now, looked up how to go about it in FAQ, but when i came to write the reply, there was a message saying 'You may not post attachments'.

Why is that? - I've seen lots of other people with pictures attached to their posts, are only certain members allowed to do so?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Centaurion

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^ thats not an attachment.

The attachment option isnt enabled here.
 

Vincent

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Moderators and admins can post attachments.

I don't really see the need for it at all.
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Moderators and admins can post attachments.

I don't really see the need for it at all.
Sorry, I'm not following you. I'm not sure if attachment is the right word for it but specifically, I'm wanting to transfer photos from my computer (which i've transferred onto my computer from my phone) into my posts.

I don't understand why you say its only for moderators and admin cos i've seen plenty of normal users like myself with pictures and attachments in their posts - such as a thread titled 'Post your picture only', and guys who've included photos in field reports.

There may be summat really obvious i've missed here but i really can't see where i'm going wrong - if anyone can, then please put me to rights!!
 

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THAT'S NOT ATTACHMENTS!!!!!

upload your pics at www.imageshack.us and post the links here. Problem solved.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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