"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jerry Maguire

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I need some help in deciding what to buy.
I've bought quite a lot of trousers (jeans, chords, khakis, plain trousers) and I'm getting nice enough shoes (white converse, black kurt geiger loafers, brown suede church's driving shoes, worn in cowboy boots and also another brown loafer)
I'm not too bothered about t-shirts, I'm just going to buy plain white and black t-shirts for kicking about.

What would you guys advise me to buy for upper body wear? Such as shirts, jumpers, etc. What would look cool but stylish at the same time? I don't really want any more t-shirts, but more ideas on dressier items for the upper body.

Also if you guys think I need any more footwear or trousers, let me know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This may be just my style but I would be long sleeved dress shirts and then cut two circles int he chest area so your niples show.:cheer:
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
NICE! What did you type in? Just "shirt" and then you browsed thru the thousands of shirts?
I am supposing he took a quick pic with a digi and uploaded it on image shack... that's what the site is for "to host images" and etc.. my guess anyways.... am I in the ballpark SHEZZ? :D

btw... Intresting shirt there Shezz!... What eals u wearing with that... just curiouse!

obviouslly maybe he didn't post a link directly to e-bay so ppl don't copy his style haha :D am i in the ballpark again Shezz? :cheer:

Edit: So that am not off the topic completely. Ask the SALES girls in the clothing store.. they are usually a lot of help. But dont give into too expensive stuff like my FRIEND who ended up buying 300$ just cuz it was a hot girl that helped him... sigh i still cant belive that....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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:cheer: WOOT :cheer:

now what is PVC? am kinda of short on abbriviations.. :-\
 

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Go to Anchor Blue. Talk to someone that's been there for a while. They will pimp you out.

I know, I work there.
 

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You want a money shirt? Get a collared long sleeve shirt that matches the color of your eyes.
 

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Just make sure that you look different to everyone else - most guys my age wear:

Trainers
Denim Jeans
Hoodie or boring jumper.

Especially don't go for the "rock/indie kid" look. They all piss me off.

Wear anything but that, please.
 

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jeez i'm always best dressed where ever i go.

I go to the outlet mall and get claiborne anything. Mostly black slim modern fitted shirts, I wear alot of black pants.

DKNY mens stuff is pretty edgy..

I even like some of the mossimo stuff at target.

Most of my closet is claiborne.

Doc martens shoes...

remember, the socks match the belt, which match the shoes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've also gotten a number of compliments on **** I buy from Express for Men. Some of their pants are pretty tight.
 

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What kind of footwear should someone wear with khakis??

I am in high school keep thta in mind please.
 

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I've got a pair of shoes that just scream pimp, and would go well with Khaki's. They're Dr. Martens, but also have white leather all over them. They also have some fancy embroidered things on them..http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t.../103-3641686-9802250?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance. These shoes are pure MONEY!!! I have gotten so many compliments on these shoes from women, its amazing. Make sure to wear a brown belt to match though, or you'll look like an ass. I would wear a white collared long sleve shirt to complete the look.
 

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damn man. I've heard of those, but have never worn anything besides sneakers, tennis shoes, that sorta thing.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
I've got a pair of shoes that just scream pimp, and would go well with Khaki's. They're Dr. Martens, but also have white leather all over them. They also have some fancy embroidered things on them..http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t.../103-3641686-9802250?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance. These shoes are pure MONEY!!! I have gotten so many compliments on these shoes from women, its amazing. Make sure to wear a brown belt to match though, or you'll look like an ass. I would wear a white collared long sleve shirt to complete the look.
Brogues like that with the creeper soles are totally 1970s punk... awesome.

I wear bowling shoes (http://www.underground-england.co.uk/acatalog/UM-81-BR_2.JPG), these silver pointy New Rock boots with ridges on them ("OMG they look like knight's boots" is something I hear from girls a lot), and chestnut Chelsea boots most of the time. You could wear any of those with khaki pants, Kerensky, and you'd stand out. Cool shoes, unlike a lot of other clothing items, are pretty easy to find online if you look around a bit. Try www.zappos.com.

We should have a "What are you wearing" thread with pictures here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What good colours of shirts should I get?
I was thinking on a pale pink (not too bright).
A previous poster recommended a brown shirt (my eye colour) and I was thinking about a shade of red (being passionate and all)
I'll also get some striped shirts.
Any more suggestions?
(No peacocking shirts btw :x)
 
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