"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need some help in deciding what to buy.
I've bought quite a lot of trousers (jeans, chords, khakis, plain trousers) and I'm getting nice enough shoes (white converse, black kurt geiger loafers, brown suede church's driving shoes, worn in cowboy boots and also another brown loafer)
I'm not too bothered about t-shirts, I'm just going to buy plain white and black t-shirts for kicking about.

What would you guys advise me to buy for upper body wear? Such as shirts, jumpers, etc. What would look cool but stylish at the same time? I don't really want any more t-shirts, but more ideas on dressier items for the upper body.

Also if you guys think I need any more footwear or trousers, let me know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This may be just my style but I would be long sleeved dress shirts and then cut two circles int he chest area so your niples show.:cheer:
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
NICE! What did you type in? Just "shirt" and then you browsed thru the thousands of shirts?
I am supposing he took a quick pic with a digi and uploaded it on image shack... that's what the site is for "to host images" and etc.. my guess anyways.... am I in the ballpark SHEZZ? :D

btw... Intresting shirt there Shezz!... What eals u wearing with that... just curiouse!

obviouslly maybe he didn't post a link directly to e-bay so ppl don't copy his style haha :D am i in the ballpark again Shezz? :cheer:

Edit: So that am not off the topic completely. Ask the SALES girls in the clothing store.. they are usually a lot of help. But dont give into too expensive stuff like my FRIEND who ended up buying 300$ just cuz it was a hot girl that helped him... sigh i still cant belive that....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:cheer: WOOT :cheer:

now what is PVC? am kinda of short on abbriviations.. :-\
 

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Go to Anchor Blue. Talk to someone that's been there for a while. They will pimp you out.

I know, I work there.
 

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You want a money shirt? Get a collared long sleeve shirt that matches the color of your eyes.
 

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Just make sure that you look different to everyone else - most guys my age wear:

Trainers
Denim Jeans
Hoodie or boring jumper.

Especially don't go for the "rock/indie kid" look. They all piss me off.

Wear anything but that, please.
 

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jeez i'm always best dressed where ever i go.

I go to the outlet mall and get claiborne anything. Mostly black slim modern fitted shirts, I wear alot of black pants.

DKNY mens stuff is pretty edgy..

I even like some of the mossimo stuff at target.

Most of my closet is claiborne.

Doc martens shoes...

remember, the socks match the belt, which match the shoes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've also gotten a number of compliments on **** I buy from Express for Men. Some of their pants are pretty tight.
 

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What kind of footwear should someone wear with khakis??

I am in high school keep thta in mind please.
 

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I've got a pair of shoes that just scream pimp, and would go well with Khaki's. They're Dr. Martens, but also have white leather all over them. They also have some fancy embroidered things on them..http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t.../103-3641686-9802250?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance. These shoes are pure MONEY!!! I have gotten so many compliments on these shoes from women, its amazing. Make sure to wear a brown belt to match though, or you'll look like an ass. I would wear a white collared long sleve shirt to complete the look.
 

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damn man. I've heard of those, but have never worn anything besides sneakers, tennis shoes, that sorta thing.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
I've got a pair of shoes that just scream pimp, and would go well with Khaki's. They're Dr. Martens, but also have white leather all over them. They also have some fancy embroidered things on them..http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t.../103-3641686-9802250?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance. These shoes are pure MONEY!!! I have gotten so many compliments on these shoes from women, its amazing. Make sure to wear a brown belt to match though, or you'll look like an ass. I would wear a white collared long sleve shirt to complete the look.
Brogues like that with the creeper soles are totally 1970s punk... awesome.

I wear bowling shoes (http://www.underground-england.co.uk/acatalog/UM-81-BR_2.JPG), these silver pointy New Rock boots with ridges on them ("OMG they look like knight's boots" is something I hear from girls a lot), and chestnut Chelsea boots most of the time. You could wear any of those with khaki pants, Kerensky, and you'd stand out. Cool shoes, unlike a lot of other clothing items, are pretty easy to find online if you look around a bit. Try www.zappos.com.

We should have a "What are you wearing" thread with pictures here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What good colours of shirts should I get?
I was thinking on a pale pink (not too bright).
A previous poster recommended a brown shirt (my eye colour) and I was thinking about a shade of red (being passionate and all)
I'll also get some striped shirts.
Any more suggestions?
(No peacocking shirts btw :x)
 
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