"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whole lot of numbers... now what?

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So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Colin O'Brien said:
So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
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Your on the right track, just be a little humble. Getting numbers doesn't always mean a whole lot. You could even have a horny girl in your room, doesn't mean your gonna get laid every time. Just how life is sometimes.

That being said, think of something to do first. Let inviting them up to your room be a means to an end.

Think of some creative way for them to end up in your room. Ask if they want to see the comedian on campus, watch a Ben Stiller movie, play rock band, smoke a blunt, polish off a bottle, whatever. Just think of something natural. If she plays a sport or exercises, going to the gym together can potentially be an awesome way to hang out.

Then the rest will follow.
 
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