"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whole lot of numbers... now what?

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Colin O'Brien

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So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Colin O'Brien said:
So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
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Your on the right track, just be a little humble. Getting numbers doesn't always mean a whole lot. You could even have a horny girl in your room, doesn't mean your gonna get laid every time. Just how life is sometimes.

That being said, think of something to do first. Let inviting them up to your room be a means to an end.

Think of some creative way for them to end up in your room. Ask if they want to see the comedian on campus, watch a Ben Stiller movie, play rock band, smoke a blunt, polish off a bottle, whatever. Just think of something natural. If she plays a sport or exercises, going to the gym together can potentially be an awesome way to hang out.

Then the rest will follow.
 
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