"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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whole lot of numbers... now what?

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Colin O'Brien

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So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Colin O'Brien said:
So after my first 2 weeks of college I can literally feel it, I'm on the verge of getting this **** down, I have built attraction in just about every girl I've met, my phone is full of numbers, I just don't know what to do with them. If I want to hook up with one of them what do I do? Would I have a better chance at getting a hookup if I call them and just flat out invite them up to my room? Or should I see if they want to go out and do something first? Should I do it at nighttime or during the day?

My inner and outer game has improved so much in terms of building attraction, my final hurdle is simply actually getting them up to my room.
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Your on the right track, just be a little humble. Getting numbers doesn't always mean a whole lot. You could even have a horny girl in your room, doesn't mean your gonna get laid every time. Just how life is sometimes.

That being said, think of something to do first. Let inviting them up to your room be a means to an end.

Think of some creative way for them to end up in your room. Ask if they want to see the comedian on campus, watch a Ben Stiller movie, play rock band, smoke a blunt, polish off a bottle, whatever. Just think of something natural. If she plays a sport or exercises, going to the gym together can potentially be an awesome way to hang out.

Then the rest will follow.
 
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