"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who woulda gotten this girl's number?

bob2007

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So I'm in crappy Stamford, CT. Slim pickings on women.

I travelled back to Canada for a couple days on a bus. So I'm hoping the whole time I'd meet a hot girl and maybe get a number.

Low and behold, I meet this ok looking girl (7?) in a navy like uniform. I initiate, blablalab uniform. Turns out she's a freshman in the Coast Guard Academy, says shes the youngest in her class. we had decent convos about her training, bit bout me, back and forth.

It's late at night, she's really tired, ends up sleeping on my shoulder on and off, when she realizes it. A little interest perhaps?

Morning comes, I say hey I haven't got your name yet. We're looking at our passports. She's like this page'll tell you all about me.

Me, shocked: "O you're 17? Ya you're really young!" (I'm 22) Meanwhile I figure I shouldn't pursue her, she turns 18 in like 5 months.

So anyone else woulda tried to get her number? Please be reminded, that I don't have many prospects in this new, small, little town. I know about the legality of underaged minors, but lets say if it was strictly no sex for 5 months.

I feel like I shoulda got her number and decided whether to call later.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 

bob2007

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lol. I did think of giving her my number.

She lives close, like the next town over. We both go to NYC to hang out on weekends.

Last Man Standing said:
This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 
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She is 17 going on 40!!! :rolleyes:
 

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Seventeen is the perfect age for debauchery. Just ask Chef.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you should have just went for it. oh well... just remember to do it next time.
 
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