"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who woulda gotten this girl's number?

bob2007

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So I'm in crappy Stamford, CT. Slim pickings on women.

I travelled back to Canada for a couple days on a bus. So I'm hoping the whole time I'd meet a hot girl and maybe get a number.

Low and behold, I meet this ok looking girl (7?) in a navy like uniform. I initiate, blablalab uniform. Turns out she's a freshman in the Coast Guard Academy, says shes the youngest in her class. we had decent convos about her training, bit bout me, back and forth.

It's late at night, she's really tired, ends up sleeping on my shoulder on and off, when she realizes it. A little interest perhaps?

Morning comes, I say hey I haven't got your name yet. We're looking at our passports. She's like this page'll tell you all about me.

Me, shocked: "O you're 17? Ya you're really young!" (I'm 22) Meanwhile I figure I shouldn't pursue her, she turns 18 in like 5 months.

So anyone else woulda tried to get her number? Please be reminded, that I don't have many prospects in this new, small, little town. I know about the legality of underaged minors, but lets say if it was strictly no sex for 5 months.

I feel like I shoulda got her number and decided whether to call later.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 

bob2007

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lol. I did think of giving her my number.

She lives close, like the next town over. We both go to NYC to hang out on weekends.

Last Man Standing said:
This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 
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She is 17 going on 40!!! :rolleyes:
 

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Seventeen is the perfect age for debauchery. Just ask Chef.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you should have just went for it. oh well... just remember to do it next time.
 
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