"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who woulda gotten this girl's number?

bob2007

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So I'm in crappy Stamford, CT. Slim pickings on women.

I travelled back to Canada for a couple days on a bus. So I'm hoping the whole time I'd meet a hot girl and maybe get a number.

Low and behold, I meet this ok looking girl (7?) in a navy like uniform. I initiate, blablalab uniform. Turns out she's a freshman in the Coast Guard Academy, says shes the youngest in her class. we had decent convos about her training, bit bout me, back and forth.

It's late at night, she's really tired, ends up sleeping on my shoulder on and off, when she realizes it. A little interest perhaps?

Morning comes, I say hey I haven't got your name yet. We're looking at our passports. She's like this page'll tell you all about me.

Me, shocked: "O you're 17? Ya you're really young!" (I'm 22) Meanwhile I figure I shouldn't pursue her, she turns 18 in like 5 months.

So anyone else woulda tried to get her number? Please be reminded, that I don't have many prospects in this new, small, little town. I know about the legality of underaged minors, but lets say if it was strictly no sex for 5 months.

I feel like I shoulda got her number and decided whether to call later.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 

bob2007

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lol. I did think of giving her my number.

She lives close, like the next town over. We both go to NYC to hang out on weekends.

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This is the "pick-up" - give her your number and tell her - "Call me on your birthday!"
 
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She is 17 going on 40!!! :rolleyes:
 

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Seventeen is the perfect age for debauchery. Just ask Chef.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you should have just went for it. oh well... just remember to do it next time.
 
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