"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who was the best girl you ever Dated??

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OKAY GUY'S LET'S TAKE A BREATHER!!!!


I made this post to let some of us soon-2-Be Dj's to think about the best girls we ever dated and why she need's to be recognized..I think theres too many guys having problems and this site is Slooooooowly turning into a females bathroom (you know that place they say there going to use the restroom at?)

yeah I think that this one girl for me diserves the honorable mention....



She was 16 and i was 17 (last year) from another country actually.. we were in the same science class and i just started running all game on her....(some of my best):cool: so she laughed at all most everything i said...she was beautiful...South american spicy!!!(with a nice ass) a hb8.5 We would skip class to make-out and get me a *******...one day she started speaking a different language cuz i called her a b!tch...and she didn't talk to me for like 2 weeks...so one day im hanging with my homies and she was calling me but i didn't acknowledge...she then walks over pull me away from my friends and starts to make-out with me about 10 feet away from my friends...they were like DAMN!!! you go BOY!!! she later moved back to her country in south america...plus she let me have sex with (i was her 1st)

if you got any women in your life that should be noticed as the best post!!!!!

p.s

There not all our enemies!!!:D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've never had a date yet, man I need to get my sh*t together :eek:. I guess the experience will be new to me once it finally happens which will be soon (hopefully).
 

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iT'S AIGHT homie...Damn is there no women worth mentioning????

you guys need more work than we thought!!!:p
 

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23 yr old Canadian aerobics instructor, i ended up living with her for 1 year, best girl i ever had.
 

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Theres this one girl. She always left me notes laying around were she knew id see them. Like dirty notes saying how she would fu*k me.

She was pretty to. Black hair green eyes tall great body. Like skiny but with curves.

She was also the best sex i ever had. She went slow and it lasted for like 2 hours.

She was rich to.

She bought me things and on my bday she had organised a big suprise party.

She was also always happy and giggly.

She cooked for me and she was a fantastic cook.

She always had somethign intresting to talk about (never a dull moment)

She also had something about her in her eyes the way she carried her self she exuded openess and power.

That was my best girl. She was basicly perfect but i fu*ked it up.

Ninja out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your mom.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Your mom.
dayum dat was cold dude.... by the way have you ever had a girl n your life worth mentioning??
 

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What is it with this site you cant tell a sex story or talk about an amzing GF without getting personal attacks?

Ninja out
 

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I would have to say the Italian girl with the hip length hair and thigh high leather boots was pretty cool. She use to answer my phone (which I wasn't all to fond of) but she would introduce herself as my sex slave. She was a WILD one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by MercutioTHEGREAT
dayum dat was cold dude.... by the way have you ever had a girl n your life worth mentioning??
Yeah, I did actually. A german girl that I met in my senior year of highschool. We dated for four years. A great all around girl. Attractive, smart(enough), loved sex. But on top of all of that, it was just her personality. Just a total sweetheart, very innocent, not like almost all of the other messed up girls I've met in my life. I took her virginity. We just grew apart I guess. Too bad. Plus her mom was kind of annoying and I knew she'd probably end up like that as well.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Yeah, I did actually. A german girl that I met in my senior year of highschool. We dated for four years. A great all around girl. Attractive, smart(enough), loved sex. But on top of all of that, it was just her personality. Just a total sweetheart, very innocent, not like almost all of the other messed up girls I've met in my life. I took her virginity. We just grew apart I guess. Too bad. Plus her mom was kind of annoying and I knew she'd probably end up like that as well.
Your sister?

Immature idiot.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Theres this one girl. She always left me notes laying around were she knew id see them. Like dirty notes saying how she would fu*k me.

She was pretty to. Black hair green eyes tall great body. Like skiny but with curves.

She was also the best sex i ever had. She went slow and it lasted for like 2 hours.

She was rich to.

She bought me things and on my bday she had organised a big suprise party.

She was also always happy and giggly.

She cooked for me and she was a fantastic cook.

She always had somethign intresting to talk about (never a dull moment)

She also had something about her in her eyes the way she carried her self she exuded openess and power.

That was my best girl. She was basicly perfect but i fu*ked it up.

Ninja out
How did you do that bro?
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
That was my best girl. She was basicly perfect but i fu*ked it up.

Ninja out

Originally posted by Blazer
How did you do that bro?
Yea I'm kinda curious too, usually like ur replies.
 

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shyt i can be here all day with this one.

First Kiss~ I was 4 and she was 5. It was a dare but we did and it was good!

First Crush~ she was 3 years older and wouldn't give me the time of day. So I layed off and while we were playing she got hurt pretty bad. Everyone ditched her. I took her home and took care of her until her parents got home. She told me she would go out with me that night...I said thanks but no thanks, but got a kiss.

First Lust. It was 6th grade and she kept telling me why she wouldn't have sex with me, and I was like WOO! Calm Down We are in 6th grade. I know now she was convincing herself, not me. We fooled around a lot but she kept true to her word.

First Time~ I appreciate it but it wasn't the best sex I have had..

First Love! I didn't want to love her cause she was with another guy, but the first time I saw her it was like in the movies. I was in my towel comming out of the shower and she was in the hall. She looked me up and down and had a grin on her face. She had long legs, great body, amazing face, and style. She dumped her man an I made her chase me. The first time she tried to kiss me I didn't kiss her back. That drove her crazy. I later let her in, and it was amazing. We got serious and lasted about 2 years. She passed away in a traffic accedent and was pregnant with my child.

Best Friend~ After that I wasn't looking for a love, but found a friend and lover. She was great and very supportive and we had the most fun I have ever had in my live with sombody. Parties, Swimming, etc. She will always be my best friend but the lovers thing didn't work out.

and To all the other girls I loved before..in some way or another!!



OHHH and that girl that taught me how to do that one thing on her you know that all the other girls love so much....and has made me the pimp I am today.... JK
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Blazer
How did you do that bro?
Originally posted by MacAvoy
Yea I'm kinda curious too, usually like ur replies.
Well she wanted more from me she started saying she "loved me" and she wanted me to meet her parents. I agreed because I really did like her.

That was the first major problem I had a huge argument with her dad. He is overprotective I went over for dinner on a Sunday night. We got there she introduced me to her parents and everything was fine. Her mum was like the sweetest women I ever meet she was nice. I was nothing but courteous and polite. Her mum made pasta followed by steak honestly one of the best meals I have ever had. I could see were my GF got her cooking skills from.

After dinner was finished the dads like:

Him: Nat why don’t you go help your mum wash up. (her name was Nataral pronounced Nat-cha-ral like Natural)

Her: Ok dad

(He turns to me)

Him: I know your type son and I don’t like it I want you to stay away from my daughter

Me: What do you mean type?

Him: Your unemployed you find a girl with some money and you live off her.

Me: You got me all wrong I never ask for anything from your daughter.

Him: But she does spend money on you?

Me: Yes but because she wants to.

Him: A gentleman wouldn’t accept that.

Me: Listen I like your daughter and im not going to hurt her

Him: You are no good I know your kind. Your unemployed you live in her house and she pays everything for you your like a a a sanguijuela (that’s Spanish for Leech he must have forgotten the English word).

Me: (I knew what it ment) (I just looked him right in the eyes I had a overwhelming feeling to hit him right then but obviously I didn’t its my GFs dad. So I stood up) Nataral were leaving

Her: (she comes out of the kitchen) why what happened?

Me: Lets just go now

Her: (Said something to her dad in Spanish)

Then we left.

She cried all the way home and that was the beginning of the end. It only lasted 1 month after that. Things started falling apart and I could have fixed them at any time but I was to fu*king stubborn so I fu*ked it up. Like she spoke to her dad but i was to stubborn to go back there and talk to him. She was 3 years older than me to. What a waste.

Ninja out
 

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father: i know your type...
Me:(interupt) Type?... last time I checked I was the type that made your daughter scream, quiver, and beg for more.

Loud Voice: How about Desert!

:moon:
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Well she wanted more from me she started saying she "loved me" and she wanted me to meet her parents. I agreed because I really did like her.

That was the first major problem I had a huge argument with her dad. He is overprotective I went over for dinner on a Sunday night. We got there she introduced me to her parents and everything was fine. Her mum was like the sweetest women I ever meet she was nice. I was nothing but courteous and polite. Her mum made pasta followed by steak honestly one of the best meals I have ever had. I could see were my GF got her cooking skills from.

After dinner was finished the dads like:

Him: Nat why don’t you go help your mum wash up. (her name was Nataral pronounced Nat-cha-ral like Natural)

Her: Ok dad

(He turns to me)

Him: I know your type son and I don’t like it I want you to stay away from my daughter

Me: What do you mean type?

Him: Your unemployed you find a girl with some money and you live off her.

Me: You got me all wrong I never ask for anything from your daughter.

Him: But she does spend money on you?

Me: Yes but because she wants to.

Him: A gentleman wouldn’t accept that.

Me: Listen I like your daughter and im not going to hurt her

Him: You are no good I know your kind. Your unemployed you live in her house and she pays everything for you your like a a a sanguijuela (that’s Spanish for Leech he must have forgotten the English word).

Me: (I knew what it ment) (I just looked him right in the eyes I had a overwhelming feeling to hit him right then but obviously I didn’t its my GFs dad. So I stood up) Nataral were leaving

Her: (she comes out of the kitchen) why what happened?

Me: Lets just go now

Her: (Said something to her dad in Spanish)

Then we left.

She cried all the way home and that was the beginning of the end. It only lasted 1 month after that. Things started falling apart and I could have fixed them at any time but I was to fu*king stubborn so I fu*ked it up. Like she spoke to her dad but i was to stubborn to go back there and talk to him. She was 3 years older than me to. What a waste.

Ninja out
Damn bro. I guess thats the situation where no amount of material can fix anything.

I guess you just had to follow your heart and not your head.

Oh well, theres plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck bro.
 

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She was like a rare fish. It doesnt matter how much of a DJ i am or how many girls i Fu*k i doubt i will EVER fully get over her.

Not that im hung up on her but yeh whenever i think about her it makes me angry.

Come to think of it i should call her its been like 6 months now. Use think that il seem a lil desperate if i call?

Ninja out
 

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All of my GFs and hook ups have all been seriously fvcked up one way or another.

There was 'insane Laura' who would call me on the hour, every hour of every day.
But the sex was just incredible!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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