who uses the 'L word'?

[(JJ)]

i've been with this girl for almost 2 months (really more like 3 or 4 cuz we started "talking" before that) but it's going amazing. we have a lot in common, and the stuff we don't have in common, we're opposites so we complement each other quite nicely. seriously this is the first time i've ever had anything worthwhile with a girl. anyway, the point is, who here says "I love you" to their girlfriend? i was just wondering what yall think. cuz i really think it'll go over well and i might actually mean it this time; i'm just curious about the general feeling towards saying it.

 

[ExcelNPrevail]

Don't you dare say it!....let alone think about it. She will express it too you if shes interested by that i mean (kino,and body language). Keep in mind that the word "love" nowadays is a very cheap word. I remeber the first time i said it I though It was going to feel like heaven to both of our ears, but instead I got a door slam shut on my fantasy, and reality hit me.

 

[stoner1129]

well really dude me and my gf have only been going out for a little over a month and i'll tell i'm not a dj, i don't think i'm anywhere close yet, but things have been going good with me and my gf and we say it, if i was u i wouldn't bring it up with her or mention it, let her do that, and then don't be the one to say it first when u guys do start saying it and don't over do it

 

[(JJ)]

... I remeber the first time i said it I though It was going to feel like heaven to both of our ears, but instead I got a door slam shut on my fantasy, and reality hit me.

elaborate please. did this take place because of afc behavior or what? honestly i've gamed her to the point of getting texts periodically through the day saying "you rock" "you're amazing" "you're perfect" and any variation of this sort of thing