"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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who speaks CHICK?

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Someone translate this for me who understands. I banged this HB9 a while ago and she stopped hanging out with me because we got too close. I'm 17, she's 16, no she didn't ditch me for premature (sex was great), and she claims I took her virginity which I doubt. Amateurs don't try to read this it might make your head blow up.

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Hey whats up? Not to much here jus chillin (.... BLAH BLAH BLAH.....) but anywho i jus saw u in the hallway and i duno i feel like something never got settled with us.. i would really love 2 be friends with u and call u and chill with u sumtimes because u r really such a cool great guy.. so maybe give me a call sumtime and if u have another party i promise i will come! hope everything is going good. i miss ur friendship!!!
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Does this mean she wants to get drunk and give it another go? Please tell me what to do to get laid by this girl again if at all possible!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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um, just bypass it, see what she says after that. She could just be testing you to see if you are some AFC that'll fall into her arms at first call.
 
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She sent this three days ago. I ignored it until today when I saw her in lunch and she asked if I read it and to be sure to reply. She's very unpredictable not like many chicks, she had this weird look on her face like she was worried I wouldn't answer it. Didn't seem very sexual. Dunno.
 
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play it off as friends, nothing more. then if she decideds to get drunk with you and you end up ****n her again, well thats what happens.
 
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Originally posted by pulchritudinous chum
She sent this three days ago. I ignored it until today when I saw her in lunch and she asked if I read it and to be sure to reply. She's very unpredictable not like many chicks, she had this weird look on her face like she was worried I wouldn't answer it. Didn't seem very sexual. Dunno.
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if she approched you about replying to her message then I'd say she's still interested and wants to hear from you. She might want to slow down and have an actual relationship though though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how much did you talk to her after you guys had sex.... if you broke off contact she might think she did something wrong. Basically, if anything changed after you had sex, it made her insecure and she wants to go back to the way it was before.
 
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We stopped talking more and more until a week later she disappeared pretty much. Thanks for all the advice- I think my chances are slim unless she comes on to me. I guess she just wants a friend.

Friendships with women in my opinion is something to avoid. In my experiance a friendship with a woman is being made a tampon and me being the only guy that isn't getting with her.
 
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