"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
who like clubs? who doesnt? why?
- Thread starter Jakes
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thats your opinion, i can respect that....but i cant even imagine going to a club thats not playing hip hop. salsa dancin or something like that is fine...but how do u even dance to other types or music?realsmoothie said:
another thing, some of u guys seem like youre trying to start intelligent conversations or something when u go clubbing. just go up to a chick, say "whats up" and start dancing with her and depending on her reaction, go sit down somewhere or move on to another chick....simple
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Not everybody enjoys dancing to, or even listening to, hip-hop. And I imagine the kind of hip-hop they play at a hip-hop club is the kind of sh1t you hear on the radio or MTV. Maybe I'm wrong.i am me said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
but hip hop is somethin that most people appreciate when they listen to the good stuff...plus hip hop beats in the club is the best thing to get u feelin like a pimp
TONYMONTANA523
Don Juan
Here are some rules I always use.
1. Dont buy a girl a drink unless she came with you.
2. Pay attention if a girl has been dancing all night by herself shes going to tell you no when u ask her.
3. Dont be mean to any chick she might have a friend that you might want to hook up with later that night.
4. Dont go to pick up, go to have fun even if it means cracking jokes with your boys all night.
5. Even the biggest DJ's dont take home someone everynight.
6. Dress the part if you look good youll feel good, im not saying buy a tux but put some effort into your wardrobe.
7. Dance with anybody it gives you social status if a fine chick sees you dancing with a fat chick shes not going to think less of you.
8. Take female friends, female cousins any female you might know that way at least youll have someone to dance with.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6970210001837146973
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1332838917092641375
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Who do you promote for? I'm a promoter too. What's your pay scale and do you have guest lists as well?cyp6 said:
I will not ever dance.
And any girl that gives a sh1t can suck my nuts.
Every girlfriend i've ever had dislikes this. But do they play video games with me? Do they want to play catch with a baseball? Will they watch an entire football game with me? Hell no. So why should i do their stupid activity?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
CraigMack said:
Actually, I'd been looking for some good videos on the basics of club dancing
much appreciated
Gee, I don't know... they somehow managed to dance to all sorts of different forms of music from the dawn of freaking humankind up until the mid 1980's A.D.! Jesusfvckingchrist, hip hop isn't really that cool that it brought about the advent of dacing. God, you're lame...i am me said:
My two favorite excuses:mrRuckus said:
"I'm a musician, I don't dance... I make people dance"
and
"I'm either too cool to dance or not cool enough... you decide on which one while I sit here and not care."
Archaxis said:
I've had the inclination to dance before. Since "everyone's doing it" I decided I should learn and maybe i'd like it. So i'd dance alone so i wouldn't feel stupid until i got "acceptable."
It is not enjoyable. I move my body very little naturally to music. I'll shake my leg or bob my head a little when i'm sitting down but have no urge to move my body otherwise to music. I'm pretty sure i have rhythm and all that.. i really just don't want to.
And that coupled with how wh0rish girls are and how assh0lish guys are at clubs I just don't go.
I'm not too cool or too uncool enough to dance. I really just don't want to. So I don't. And i won't. Oh, i will slow dance with a girl but that's not really dancing it's more like swaying with a hot body pressed against you.
Any guy who says he likes to dance is normally either gay or lying. Of course, many hetero guys like what dancing GETS them, but I don't think they really like to dance.
Throughout time, dancing has been a ritual and part of the mating process whereby women (with myriad choices) force guys to do that which is the most embarassing in order to prove themselves.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
of course people danced to other kinds of music before.....i was talkin about dancing to music thats played NOW. u cant really dance to rock music unless u just wanna jump around.....if u wanna dance to 1980 music thats not hip hop then go ahead and go to a 80s club but i assumed that when we were talkin about clubs, we were talkin about a modern club..Archaxis said:Gee, I don't know... they somehow managed to dance to all sorts of different forms of music from the dawn of freaking humankind up until the mid 1980's A.D.! Jesusfvckingchrist, hip hop isn't really that cool that it brought about the advent of dacing. God, you're lame...
and no man, u dont look smart for tryna put me down like that. at least im not scared to ask a girl to dance like half of the people here
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Luckily one of my friends gave me a crash course like that on dancing before I went to the club.CraigMack said:
I ended up # closing a chick just by walking up and dancing with her.
Dancing is not hard at all. The main things are to be really confident and smooth. Girls eat that shvt up.